Hey Fellas,
need some advice, Ill explain the situation nice and short,
This girl, lets call her "Secret", Secret and I first met at the coast, we played around and we did everything but sex, we agreed that seeings tho we had only known each other for like 2days that wouldn't be a smart move (keeping in mind I'm 16), Now we went out, Long story, short we broke up and I had a grudge on her for awhile

Then we started getting close again, And after I broke up with my girlfriend recently, I was talking to her on MSN and we were talking about when we were going out and the first time we met etc, Now I would never go out with her again but I feel like I have some unfinished business and she told me she agrees (hinting sex, seeings tho thats the other thing we didn't do in the past) Now she's probably a HB7 and she's been fucked and so have I, So there isn't any "Vplates" holding each other back.

Now here is where I need the advice, Wheneva I make a move and suggest that we should become closer friends, she seems to distance herself and play hard to get, yet it seems when I just chill and don't try see wants to see me etc. Any advice on how to get that "wanting" reaction from trying to fuck her. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks Guys

macbeth

hey, I'm no expert, but here's my story :

my ex was here last night, and even though I had told myself that nothing would happen... I really wanted her...

It had only been 3 weeks since we broke up, so I acted normal but then she got me jaleous by talking to me about some guys she met. Thats where you've got to be totally cool and neutral about it, or else if you'll fuck it up.

I did the basics : made her feel comfortable, made her laugh, and throwed in a couple half-jokes about what might happen if she stayed. In the middle of the "normal" discussion, I complimented on how she looked...

Then tried to throw in some lines were I explained that I didn't want to "plan" stuff anymore, just wanted to wing it and leave things happen and enjoy the present ( and not fuck everything up by thinking about the future )

And then, the closer : asked her questions that remind her of our best moments together ( so that she realizes how nice those moments were, and how she will fucking miss them ). Then I pulled her over and kissed... and holy shit, in 3 years dating, I never saw her that turned on !

So yeah, it was risky... and she did almost scare me off with her intro "blablabla I'm doing so much better now that we're not together, blabla I'm over you, blabla" ...

So, I think you should try to get her in a perfect environment where "things could happen", share some wine ( thats what we did, and I'm sure it helped ) and then just chat her up so that she thinks about the good times, miss them and when you feel its the right moment : go physical and don't stop !

If she stops you within 3 sec. of the first kiss - chances are, you're screwed : not enough sexual tension

if she stops you after that - tell her (nicely) to shut up and then keep going

this is not game experience, its just personal experience... and it worked for me