I met this girl on holiday we went out and I think she sees me more as a friend. Happends to be she lives in the same city as me. She added me on hyves(myspace) and I give her a simple: ey:) message now she replyed with this back:

Haai!

How are you? Did you already get used to the cold and rain? Or do you also miss the hot Alanya?

:handkiss:

I know a pretty normal message but I dont want to be the nextguy with mine message back. I did drink a cocktail with her called blowjob so I could message something like, I dont really miss Alanya but I sure do miss those blowjobs or something...but that could be to rude haha, and other people can see the messages...

First of all if you believe that she see's you as a friend. Then the things you say will reflect that belief. Words are vocal represantions of mindset. That message you have there, is good....but make sure to come of as being funny. If not then, she could take it to seriously. Don't worry about other people reading it, because "you don't care".