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| tack | PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 1:20 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Aug 23, 2008 11:19 pm Posts: 15 | | So I have one close freind in particular, who has a way of interfering with my game. Most of it really how his actions affect me, hes often silent to the point of making conversations with chatty girls unbearable if he isnt totaly comfortable. Because of this I end up talking too much to try and make the conversation twosided and loose sight of my routine.Hes also of the opnion that my opnions in the feild of getting tail are totaly invalid, given the fact my results are less than his. Also he discounts my ablitys with female to the point he will assume position of AMOG thinking that I dont have a chance anyways. I know the obvious solution is get new freinds, but i dont want to sacrifice a freind for an attempt at a girl. Im torn between just saying " Can you let me go after soandso and staying on the sidelines?" or just lightly AMOGing him if he trys to butt in, but at the same time I dont want him to feel like Im cock blocking him.Any advice, also he thinks "the game" and seduction is total fake and ridiculed me for even beliving in it...
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| fabie | PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 3:35 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:52 pm Posts: 123 | | I can imagine that it is irritating that you friend is holding you back in a way. But in all essence the 'game' is a personal project, and it is something you must work on yourself. To become better you must find your own way and perfect it, this is the most important because everyone is different.
To put it bluntly, in this competitive world, there will be friends that hold you back, and there will be friends that help you. Only a select few will be good enough to be your wing. It is really simple to answer your question, just go out alone on a FR and see how far you get because, when you are working in a team with a wing, you are only as good as the weakest one of you. And if your friend won't help you, your game won't go anywhere. If he DLVs you get DLV, if he DHV then you get DHV. Its that simple.
If you are persistent in sticking with him then the next time you go out take a couple steps back, and see what he does. If his interest for meeting girls and pua are not as strong as yours, then you really have to move on. He can still be your friend but not in this. After all a friend is someone who you share interests with and back you up/help you when you need it. In my opinion.
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| tack | PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 11:40 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Aug 23, 2008 11:19 pm Posts: 15 | | Thanks for your input, you made me realize a few things I hadnt thought about. He can be a good wing given the fact he knows lots of people, and when meeting a pair of girls im a mutual freind not some stranger. Luckly we have diffrent tastes, I am a SUCKER for curvy girls, if shes a HB 10 to me i would guess its a HB6-7 for him. And most of the time it works out fine he (normaly) goes after the skinny, or shorter girls ( hes probably around 5'6 and im around 5'11) and i take the taller or rounder ones and everything works out fine. But when he strikes out with or his girl leaves then things get dicey. Luckly im getting a drivers licence soon so I will have more of a chance to get out on my own (he has been my way to get out of my nehiborhood for about a year now...). I think I need to let him crash and burn a few times if he goes quiet on me and possibly rescue him at the last minute if its possible. Tell me if you think its a good idea to just let him go free and fuck it up...
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