| No need for you to bring it up, is there?
I've been here before, dude. It seemed every girl I ended up with between the age of 19 to 22 was about five years older than me (give or take), and I crashed and burned more than once. Most women in that age group seem to be hung up on their own maturity level, and have a set age for what they're looking for (generally their own age or a bit older). Something to do with perceived maturity, social proof or whatnot. Bring it up too early, and you're creating an obstacle for yourself. If she finds out she locked lips with a "kid" at a lounge, it's likely to create a particularly nasty brand of buyer's remorse. At least wait until the end of the second meeting before making it a topic of conversation. In the meantime, it sounds like you're already running solid game, so she most likely won't care about a trivial age difference once you've got her more firmly interested.
Now when there's a big age difference, there are certain taboo switches that, played correctly, can drive a woman nuts. But unless you're gaming a 30-something (which I heartily recommend), you're not in that situation. Right now, establish control of the interaction, then bring up the topic of age when she can see it's irrelevant.
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