So my ex girlfriend of 3 years has sent me 2 myspace messages within these last couple of weeks. I read them both but didnt respond. She really fucked me over good, and Im not completely over her yet. Should I just keep ignoring her completely, or should I respond and act as if everything is cool now, but there is no chance of us in the future? Apparently shes moved about 40 miles away from me now, but thats just stuff I have heard. So what would be the alpha thing to do? Just keep blowing her off, or respond in a calm manner as if everything is good?

Blowing her off may come across as looking as though her breaking up with you effected your life. Normally you wouldn't ignore her messages, so why would you now? Don't make it look as though she has had any effect on you. I think that's probably the most alpha thing to do because then she will wonder "didn't he care about me?" "why isn't he upset?" I went through a strangely simliar situation almost a year ago and played it all wrong. If I were you just live your life and don't let her know she impacted your life with her decision.

I would say that the best thing to do would be to cool down for a while. Answer her messages, but don't respond as if you want to see her again. Just be polite. Try to convey to her that you are living your busy, alpha life and she will either want back in or not really care. I would highly suggest not trying to contact her, though. Let her initiate all communication. This shows that she is not really on your mind.

And now the most important part of all; go sarging like you have never gone sarging before. Sex up as many women as you can and you will feel more distant to your ex with each one. Also, don't just go in for meaningless sex, connect with the girls. Take full advantage of C2 and get to know each girl that you can. You will find that girls in general are pretty much the same anyway.

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thanks for the advice guys. Ive already been sarging and such. Had 2 FCloses, and im working on another girl right now.