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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 9:55 am 
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I have never really had problems with girls and there was a time that I just did whatever I wanted. But now I'm a bit over that period and maybe even time for a longer relationship.
So last week I went on this date with a nice girl and had some fish n chips, watched a movie and kissed her before I drove her home.
So day after I invited her to a party at my place and she spent the night here and there was a good connection.

Had some coffee few days later and when I wanted to kiss her goodbye she turned her cheek. Painful situation.

I'm not someone that chases after girls and I will definitely not do it this time, but I'm not exactly sure what it is what is driving her away.

She is two years younger then me so maybe bit inexperienced? I'm 20yo. Maybe it moved a bit too fast and I look too needy? I don't text or call her every chance I get and I'm keeping it quite casual.

Anyone any ideas what is going on?


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 11:40 am 
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oh ho! the turned cheek, i've felt that one before! does she have a bf or anything?
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 12:35 pm 
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Nope, she just arrived from overseas


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 1:53 pm 
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If she just arrived overseas she may feel like it went to fast. You need to increase the buying tempature. Its good to not chase girls. But make her chase you. You need to give her a reason to want your attention.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 2:20 pm 
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yeah, I think indeed it went a bit too fast. Only met her last week.
Only problem is that by not doing anything now maybe she is gonna lose interest.

Maybe invite her for casual get together with some friends next weekend. No one on one date or anything, let it go a bit slower.

What do u guys think?


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 3:30 pm 
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I like it summer. A more social setting where you can dhv with your friends will be to your benefit. Also check out the AFC Adam thread about breaking rapport.

I would suggest next time you hang out, amp up the playful kino, get her worked up and then cut it off. She may come looking for that physical contact and then you make her work for it.

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