hey mates. i got a little problem here. i can confidently go out and pick up girls i really don't give a shit about. i'm talking about HB8's and 9's; with the main goal in my head is getting into their pants. but when i meet a HB6 or 7 that i'm totally into (looks, personality etc) and i want more than just to get into their pants i totally fuck it up with the wrong negs, jokes ect. and it usually bothers me for a bit.

anybody have any similar situations or advise they can offer? i don't understand. it shoudl be the other way around shouldn't it? how do you cure this?

cheers

Probably not much help, but the exact same thing happens to me.
I find that I can talk to girl’s fine, until I start to get feelings…

Last time this happened I accidentally told her friend that I liked her. I was then wrapped around both the fingers, they also played mind games, wasn’t the best feeling.
So what I’m trying now is to not let theses feelings over take my mind, and so far its working. I can talk to this girl like she’s any other gir, but still know that I like her.

Try it, it might work.

be very subtle/playfull with negs on 6/7's unless they have very high standards.

my experience is that 6-7's usually welcomes company, so you dont need to neg.