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| Dareo | PostPosted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 2:58 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 13, 2008 4:10 pm Posts: 4 | | I read that GW recommends to not approach couples. What about this (usually occurs to me): She is alone. I chat her up. Some piece of shit comes out of nothing and kisses her in front of my eyes with her not resisting and pulls her away. How does my persistence come into play here? I won't give up, that is for sure. Giving up here is wrong. But what do I do?
What to do if some piece of shit comes out of nothing, places himself next to her and looks at her, waiting? You know as a general rule that a conversation in pu is mutual. It is so easy to throw me out if they are a couple. How do I make it as uncomfortable as possible for both of them to throw me out?(I sometimes ask myself who is actually rather my enemy, the chode or her)
Lastly how to deal with the thinking
"So there she is. Standing. No approach invitation, nothing. I go in, chat her up, she resists. She keeps on resisting on a verbal level. I have the worst time of my life while she has the best time of her life at my expense. There is something inherently wrong here." In other words I hate that behaviour. I hate being the one who is literally forced to make her do every single step. And this is going to stay for my whole relationship with her. This is wrong.
Sure I am masturbating. But I doubt it to be the solution to everything to stop it. After all I do not want to punish me for her not making an effort from the get-go.
Another thing: masturbation. Why is it that I should avoid masturbation but have sex frequently? I see no difference other than in the latter there is another person involved. Why should my testosterone level increase when fucking a girl and decrease when pleasing myself?
I am coming to this because when I see couples the males in couples seem to be confident. _________________ If I have never had sex but I do not approach those girls who are with a male because I think that taken women are to be avoided and my fear proves me right, then I am not okay. Then there is something fundamentally wrong with how my brain is conditioned.
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| Chief | PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 2:31 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Thu Aug 23, 2007 9:19 am Posts: 5903 Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | Why would she be resisting your approach, even on a verbal level? GWM involves assuming rapport from the start, eliminating such resistance. Your sexual state should not be verbalized, but felt.
GWM doesn't take AMOGing into account. In fact, it barely involves other guys at all. It's all about you and her. If you approached a lone wolf, other guys will generally think from the frame you are talking about now and be too too afraid to interrupt the interaction between you and her unless he's her boyfriend or he came to the bar with her. That would mean she isn't a lone wolf in the first place.
As for the masturbation stuff, I ain't no doctor so I can't really help ya there, but there's a bigass thread on that topic here somewhere. Check Rye Lee's "Worthwhile Threads" thread in PUA Lounge.
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| Dareo | PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 3:41 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Aug 13, 2008 4:10 pm Posts: 4 | | Thank you your participation. Your answer tells a lot about your immaturity. _________________ If I have never had sex but I do not approach those girls who are with a male because I think that taken women are to be avoided and my fear proves me right, then I am not okay. Then there is something fundamentally wrong with how my brain is conditioned.
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