Alrite, so I was texting back and forth with this one chick today. If there was such a thing as flirting over texting we were doing that haha.

I met this girl earlier in the year but thanks to my old AFC ways I was too needy and kind of drove her into the LJBF mode (she never said it, but I was to scared to do any advance anyways).

I have not called her once this summer, but she has called me many times. She has said "I think I am going through shawn withdrawl, we should hang out sometime this week". That was a couple weeks ago.

Now how can I know if she is not just wanting to chill with me purely as just a friend?

Also, how do you think I should move this from texting/phone into a meet up? Shouldnt be that hard since she seems to want to... Or so she says.

Go meet her and you will find out. Even if she wants to chill with you as a friend, after that long time you can change her`s perception of you if you aproach as and alpha, funny, energetical dude who will make her feel sexy and flirting.


Don`t be so analitical and question your every move. Just ask her to meet you for a coffe or something. Or if she`s active type, go do some sport together.


Marco

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sounds good man, thanks for the help!

You could ask her to tag along while you do something and don't flirt with her too much, just be friendly. It shows that you don't need her but that you two could still chill. And if she jumps at the chance to join you for a miniscule task, then it shows you how much she wanted to hang out with you (maybe even errands if you are cocky enough and really want to test her). Haha And then at the end of all your running around, reward her by taking her for icecream...then start your PUA game and she won't know what hit her.

Its what you make of it shawn.
Firstly, text her and take control, say,"ok were doing this on this day" dont even ask her if she's free, just tell her.
Then when you hang out with her, use a series of compliance tests to try and escalate.
The beauty of compliance tests is that if you try to escalate and she wants to jbf, then she will stop you. Just make sure its clear that you are attracted to her.

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