ok so like the title says, i didnt know where else to post this but i needed to get this off my chest
to any mods that want to lock this because i posted it in the newbie section, or delete the entry itself, feel free to
i just wanted to vent a little

ok so lemme set the stage
im about to start college, and most people who are going out of state are leaving either this week or next
this girl ive been trying to get with is going to new mexico for college, and she leaves saturday
i wanted to see her/try to hook up with her before she left, so i call her and see what shes doing

she says shes packing
i say cool, ill come over and help
get in my car, and print out one routine that i was gonna try to learn on the way there (just for s and g's)
she calls me as soon as i turn on the car, saying her mom doesnt want anyone to come over while shes packing, so give her a call around 8
i call at 8
no answer
830
no answer
9
no answer
9 30
take a wild guess

i said fuck it, this is bullshit
ok i lied by the way
at 9 her brother answered and said she went out
so not only is it bullshit, but she basically flaked on me

i was having a pretty bad day to begin with, so im pissed as all hell
and to top it off i got home at midnight after driving around pissed off, come home and everyone on my block parked like a fucking asshole and i had to park 2 blocks away


so now heres where pua advice comes into play
a) do i try to make an effort to see her again (hb8.5 brunnete, great rack)
b) if i do, do i bring up her flakeness (and say something like you owe me, in a semi playful tone?)
c)any routines recomended for a definate close, either k or full, im not gonna see her again for a long time and this might be my last chance for anything

again, if any mods are upset about me posting an unrelated topic in the newbie section, feel free to lock or remove it
i apologize in advance, and also thank anyone in advance who read/cared about this and leaves advice

Whoa.... One or two too many calls...

Look bro, she can sense the neediness and desperation from a great distance. Calling once was all that needed to happen. If she really wanted to hang out with you, she would have made time.

What did you expect her to do after the multiple phone calls?

What happens when you chase something really hard?
It runs aways really fast.
a. no
b. no
c. I think ur done bro.... If you feel the need to contact her again, call on Thrusday to try and set something up... but after her flaking and going out and not returning your calls... its going to be tough to set something up. She will probably be able to sense your frustration with her.

Go out and meet a few other girls... get this one outta your head. Its the best thing for you. You are getting ready for college... There are going to be soooooooooo many dips there, you wont even remeber this ones name.

Good luck bro.

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Hey dude,

I feel what you're saying man. I've had many a girl flake out on me and i've come to this realization:

If a chick flakes out make them feel like shit. Why the hell not? You'd get mad at your buddies if they flaked. Don't raise your voice and don't lose control. Call them out and then say goodbye.

There's 2 things that can happen:

1) she realizes that she can't just have you whenever she pleases. She sincerely apologizes. From here you don't ask questions. You give commands. Meet me here at this time. If she hesitates forget about it. Go meet some other chicks.

2) she's so afraid of being held accountable to her actions that she just avoids you completely forever (most flakey chicks fall into this category). OR she gets mad at you for getting mad.

Either way in both situations you get shit off your chest and you move on. Nothing kills your manliness more than being nice to a chick that was just a bitch to you because you want to be chivalrous. Don't let youreslf be emasculated. You fucking rock - remember that.

At this point forget about her. If you really really wanna hook up with her, start hitting on her friends and make her jealous. You probably don't have time for that though and frankly she's probably not worth it. Just because a girl is hot doesn't mean sex with her is fun.

Ex. Paris hilton sex video (what the hell kinda crappy bj was that?).

Goodluck

CPT