So I'm supposed to meet up with a friend of mine, and she's inviting a bunch of people from her work. Thing is, she works at a gym. So while there will be some attractive women, there are also going to be a lot of buff personal trainer guys as well. If one of the girls is a personal trainer, being physically fit is probably not going to cut it either - it's more a standard for her than a sort of DHV.

So my question is - how to demonstrate higher value in front of these girls? How to handle the AMOGs in the group (I believe more in bringing the enemy over to your side rather than making a fool of him).

This won't be a traditional sarge since there is no "false" time constraint. Usually the Game happens over the course of several minutes with many steps in between, but tonight could last up to a few hours, which kind of blurs my focus. How does one pace himself, etc.?

I've discovered I can keep a conversation going for the most part, and that I can be fairly charming and a good conversationalist when I need to be, but any additional advice would be much appreciated.

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

Q.