You can see it everywhere. Your friends told you, women tell you and famous pick up literature writers tell you one single thing:

"If you do xy women will love it" or "This will increase her attraction" or "She will feel safe if you do xy".

It is about making her feel good by making yourself feel bad.
Read that again.

Making you work and talking you into "doing it for fun". "Not expecting an outcome". So you are standing at home taking care for your body and appearance and go out without wanting to get something back.

This is wrong.

This is not about wining and dining. This is about doing cold-reading, taking the responsibility for her and talking to her to make her day.

What is the meaning of "it works" in a pu context? That you pleased or served her.

There must be a change. No, this is the wrong way. Women are there to serve.

Women want to serve men. Every neat relationship shows this.

Serving women is wrong. Pleasing women is wrong. Again, pleasing means wanting to create attraction, wanting her to feel good.

We all have to make a change in thinking. We all have to treat ourselves with respect. Women do not deserve to be pleased. Women are useless until men tell them what to do.

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Be well. Whoever you are.