I've been out with an HB9 3 times (2 off which were 'dates' and the first was some time I spent when I first met her as we had to share a space).
Great rapport, comfort level very high, been very close to sex (lots of kino, kissing, writhing around, moaning, etc!) but wasn't the right time of the month and I didn't push that any further.
She did hint at a future sexual rendezvous though.
However, looking back since I've met this girl I've noticed that aside from a couple of rare occasions (to reschedule a date and to ask me to come to a theatre which turned out to sound more like a reschedule so I declined and stuck to the original date I had planned), pretty much all contact has been initiated by me.
Don't get me wrong, when I do contact her she's up for talking, texting, emailing, but when I don't she just doesn't seem to ever take the lead and contact me first, even if she's said she would.

I haven't been pestering this girl, there have been periods where I've had no contact for about four days thinking that I should wait for her to contact me, then nothing but the minute I send her a text such as 'you cool kiddo?', she was on the phone to me straight away and didn't seem to want to come off for up to an hour, despite me telling her I had to go.
This girl has a high profile career and like myself is a very busy person but I cant help but feel there's something else wrong here..

Little things she's accidentally said show me that she has been thinking about me (i.e telling me she had wrote a little silly song from something we had been joking about - and then getting embarrased and saying she wasnt supposed to tell me that).
I cant help but wonder what would happen if I simply didn't contact her for a week (this would be ridiculously difficult for me because I really like this one).
Is she dis-interested (signs say she's not when she's with me - she's even introduced me to her sister and colleagues that she looks up to - but possibly when she doesnt contact me) or is she playing 'the game' with me?
Does she expect me to do the running? Or are some women just this way?
For the record, no contact I have had with her has ever been needy on my behalf, I'm always CF (she was surprised to see 'the soft side' of me recently when I gave her a small gift at the end of the night for 'being a good girl') . I make a point of playing it cool with this one, specifically because she has alot of male attention as she has a pretty high profile entertainment career. She's quite humble with it though. I've spent approximately 20 cumulative hours with her all together.

Any advice? Seems a hard nut to crack!

Yours confused...

K.

Well, I'd give my 2 cents, but I'm just about to leave for a music fest for a week, so if you still want it then, send me a PM and I'd be more than happy to let you know what I think!

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Why do you want her to lead? That's your job.

She's clearly interested, so continue as normal.

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My money is on very few, he always says himself that he is fussy.... But he will probs post 1 very good 1. Maybe a HB10 billionaire?

From what your saying it sounds like she is interested, assuming you havent got into LJBF. My money is she is shy from past experiences and has high standards and is simply testing you to see if you can hold up your personality or if u will fall to AFC after a while.
Keep gaming and going out with her. If she is cool when ur with her then its ok, maybe she just doesnt know how to use a phone

Hey Rye, already sent you that PM so lookig forward to your input when your back. Thanks for the input guys. Some valid points. It's always good to get a subjective opinion. Any more thoughts on the matter by others still more than welcome. Women are strange creatures arent they? Lotta fun figuring them out though!

Hey guys,

I overnegged this girl and was just too much of a jerk and then manned up and said hey listen I got ur number for a reason ect... and that am sincere... she replies back with " I got ur messages but was busy all week and I know where u are heading with this (wanting a relationship) but I dont know what I want now..." and I am like this girl really wants me to chase her down hollywood blvd like WTF... this is the same girl that was seeking rapport with me, and was giving all the ioi's when we had met ..... now what do u think??? should I persue keep going or hell with her?