hey

having big dramas moving from kissing etc in a club/bar to getting her to leave her friends and go back to the hotel (on hol btw)
absolutly no problem with approch, demonstraiting value or getting the kiss, got that nailed now
so quick field report-

saw a 3 set in a club opened, few bits of canned material, etc etc after about 1/2hr isolated and ran the cube, worked a treat, loved kissed there, went back to her friends, kissed again, little more chating with loads of ioi's kino little kissing, i sed ive lost my friend im going to find him, she insisted on coming with, looked around went back, i shortly sed i think he must of gone back, im leaving to see if hes there, she sed ok me and my friend (there were 5 in total) will walk back with you, (btw r hotels were realy close) she got me to do the cube on her friend which went down well again, and had a good laugh all the way to my hotel, then she asked me to walk her to the hotel, got there kissed but she sed good night in a way to say, politly, that i wasnt coming in, even wen her friend promted to invite me in she made some lame excuse about the landloard waking up, so i went home alone


number 2-

long story short had basicly the same sketch, but this time moved to a few different clubs and this girl was all over me, her friends liked me too which made cat string easy to bring in cos i could just ignore her and talk to her friends, within seconds she was trying to get my attention back, then at the 3 club got a little 3rd base action on the dance floor, she loved it, but bout an hr later she went cold, still kissing etc but not all over me any more so in the end i figured id fucked up at last minute again n sed good nite,

hope thats enough detail/information as this is my first post and any help, tips pointers would be much apretiated as i cnt quite get this last bit

many thanks
flash

What do you think will happend if you DO go with the girl into the hotel?
Why do you feel this way?

If you have no idea, JUST DAMN DO IT!

It's like AA - you just have to push yourself to do it. How will your life be if you can't go home to them?

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you miss understand, my problem is not fear of going to the hotel, its getting them to go with, i cant seem to seal the deal

Heya man,

All you need is a good justification or the close.

Honestly I'd take the time to explain that you're hungry earlier on in the night.

then after a while of making out with her, tell her you're super hungry and unless she wants to see you starve you're gonna have to go get food.

Get her to come with you.

In an ideal world you would take her to food via your place (so you could pick something up jacket, wallet whatever.) So she had been there once with you.

Then move on to food location. eat and then you can bounce form there back to your place easy enough for the close. As she's been there already she won't think it's weird to head back so you can show her music/dvd whatever.

If she is worried about her friends. Make a point of leaving before the clubs closes teing her you'll get her back in time. Then after food tell her that rather than go back to the club why doesn't she text her friends and let them know whre she is so they can call her when they leave the club.

The two of you begin making out etc on the bed. She'll forget about her friends. (If you're clever you'll get her to leave her phone in one room in her bag, then move to close in a different room so she can't her it ringing...though by now this may be logistical over kill.

I hope this helps.

Any questions Just ask.

AFC Adam,