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| Skaterforlife | PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:29 pm | |
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Location: Seattle, Washington | | Im having some trouble
When I approach women I usually ask those boring interview questions
How can I change that?
Im not a boring person and for me its hard not ask those questions because I dont really know them
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| Infamous110 | PostPosted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:32 am | |
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Location: UK | | Be interesting!
1) You can make the questions sound less interview/interviewee with just a few simple changes in phrasing.
2) Take each question deeper, find what's good about things (nb. not what's bad). make guesses as to why she does/is/wants whatever the answer was - playfullness!
3) Talk about yourself - extend each question this way and then it's 2-way conversation which are so much more fulfilling.
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| Facher | PostPosted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:04 am | |
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Joined: Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:20 pm
Posts: 240 | | Think of it this way:
Conversation is about the exchange of value.
Each question requests value, and each contribution gives value. Interview = being needy of value. Instead, ask her a question, and then contribute. For fuck sake, Mystery could talk about how the MP3-format works inside of clubs to HB's. As long as you really think it's amusing, she will listen.
And - if not... well, you didn't blow it.. since being an interviewer would have blown you out faster.
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