What do you do if you text a girl and she doesn't reply even though she was keen when you met?

Sometimes in a rare case your text might not have gone through even though it read sent. try again if she doesn't respond this time forget her

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When my messages don't get to her, I do the following:

I send the SAME EXACT message again so she may be a bit confused that it was a "system bug" and my message was sent twice.

It's a good way to make sure the message arrives there. I also turn on "Delivery Status Report" so I recieve a message when the message gets to her cellphone.

lol this is exactly what i do.. because i noticed a lot when people text my phone i get a lot of duplicate messages, so i use it on text game to test to see if they got it or if they're being an ass

but dont worry about it man she was probably busy if she does it like the next day or doesnt get back to you forget her, or if your really ON it wait a couple of more days to re-initiate contact so you dont seem clingy. the LAST thing you want to do is become frantic and start sending her messages back to back like "Is something wrong?", "Are You ignoring me?" "Why dont you ever answer?" or the worst one imo "What're you doing?" over and over again...I just dont like starting with What're you doing personally because it seems a little too thirsty to me lol


just remember to relax and if she doesnt try to get back to you forget her!

Jimi dont you mean needy, instead of clingy.

If she doesn't respond to your text, then give it a while and dont text her again, call her instead.
Maybe try her the day after because she may be thinking different by then.
Chances are she got your text and if she's interested she'll get back. Either that or she just doesn't know how to reply to it (and got shy). If you ask her something on the phone she has no choice but to reply (or she appears like a dumass).
It also could have got lost among others.

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yeah thats what i meant thanks

Well funny, I just bumped into her in the bank. I walked in listening to my ipod and she was standing in the doorway, I didn't recognize her at first, she recognized me and smiled and shook my hand which I thought was a bit weird. She didn't look as hot as I remember so I'm not so fussed now. It all happened very quickly and she introduced her friend as they walked out.

Not too fussed now but I might call her and see if she wants to hang out.

Ok, so recently I've slipped into this. We can't get every girl we want. I met a girl at the mall. Got her number. Texted her. Never replied back. Waited a few days and called. She had given me the wrong number! I found out later though that she had a b/f and thats why.

Hahaha o well. It's not a big deal, you can't hook them all, but thats besides the point.

The best thing to do right off the bat is CALL!!!! You know that when you text, a million and one things can happen.
Here are a few.


She can read and respond immediately.
She can read and respond later.
She can read and ignore.
She can read, be busy at the time, and forget.
Her phone can be off so she never received the text.
It can be the wrong number... LOL
She may not even have her phone to respond.
She can't text message due to her plan or charges.

How to address this?

JUST CALL.

Call once, if she answers you seem really Alpha and confident, keep it short and sweet. This is why we have phones. People hide behind texting and emailing because they are too afraid of public interaction!

If she doesn't answer, leave her a voicemail. That way you KNOW she has to eventually check that and it will be up to her whether or not to return your call.

Its better to just call and get straight to the point rather then wondering in your head the million and one things that might have happened to that text.

Hope this helps!

-Patience