Every time i sarge i notice i sound like im trying to keep the conversation going by asking questions and more questions and the conversation doesnt seem natural. Where could i find information about how to make conversation flow naturally. Any advice and thank you ahead of time.

Questions are conversational material that guys use when they have no more value to contribute to the conversation. Girls can sense this and usually blow them out.

A trick on how to get over this problem is to do the following:

1. Opener
2. DHV-routine (a story about something)
3. further game...

IF you feel that you have nothing to contribute you are a bad conversationalist. Ask a question, then contribute. "What music do you guise like?". After reply, add some value e.g. "Cool, so you like metal.. have you heard about Flyleaf? They are not that famous, but they make good music *pulls out iPod".

Start making statemets that lead to questions.

"you seem like you are quite smart.. oh, this reminds me of the book xxx by yyy, it's so cool, I can't tell you because I don't know if you read. did you?"

something like this.

Maybe work on your multiple threading skills. Before you answer something that she says, bring up another topic that you can go back to afterwards.

Also, if you start asking her a lot of questions, she may go into interview mode. So try making guesses about her instead of asking questions. i think someone mentioned this earlier.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

I think the solutions is fairly easy (Haven't tried, but pretty sure it'll work)
... just go out and start chatting up random strangers