I often find myself watching a movie with a girl that i would like to make out with. When i have my arm around her shoulder and shes leaning all over me (major ioi's) BUt i dont know how to get her to turn so i can kiss her. what would yours guys ideas be about this. its one of my weak spots

Other hand on her chin, gentle tilt her head to you. Tbh, 1 finger under her chin.

100% right.

what is tbh ?

That takes decently established comfort and attraction, to the point where this isn't the first kiss really. It's very overt and she has any hesitation at all, she'll just pull back.

Personally, if my arm is already around her shoulder and she's just not looking the right way, I'd cup the back of her head, right where the neck ends very gently and mostly with my palm and then apply light pressure with my fingers, so that she will naturally turn towards me.

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U dont just tilt her head and jump her Rye Lee!!
Look at her, start triangle gazing (eye to eye to lips) and keep doing that slowly while matching her breathing. Slowly move closer and tbh, if u have your arm round her and she IS cuddled up to you then it WILL work without resistance.
Or maybe its just my sexy eyes that make it work Who knows!! :p

Rye Lee's method is a very similar method imo, and like he said there is a need for comfort and attraction. Now, as a general rule i will never go for a kiss until i have first got some IOI's (like you have, her leaning on u, cuddling up etc) however the other key thing to do is some simple complience tests. The reason i am always carful with a first kiss is because do it to early and its normally game over, do it a little late and u will not be kicked out the door!
Now just because you are doing simple complience tests DO NOT MAKE IT OBVIOUS YOUR GOING TO KISS HER! I cant stress that enough, imo, every girl likes a spontanious kiss. Its confident, alpha and generally more sexy.
Dont go over the top on a first kiss though! just a quick kiss and make sure your the first to pull out. It shows much more self control and will leave HER wanting more.

/madals
p.s. tbh is a shorterning of to be honest.

Not saying that your method doesn't work Madals, cause there's a million ways to go about things, but I personally just don't put that much thought into it. When I know she's attracted and comfortable enough to let me into her personal space, I kiss her. Sure I've got techniques, sure, I glance back and forth between her eyes and lips once or twice, but I don't bother with matching breathing, or triangle gazing and I don't get any resistance. Again, that's just how I go about things, but I also like to build a highly sexual frame, as I am a very sexual person, so it makes all that stuff end up feeling fairly redundant, so I just cut to the point.

Also, although Madals is right about being the first to pull back (if you feel her pulling back at all make sure that you increase intensity and pull her back in for a second, then pull back before she can, so that you are the one that ends it), I don't agree on making it quick. I like a first kiss to last between 3-10 seconds, but no less than 3. Even on a girl that is shy or has big barriers and such, give a kiss and you can part lips briefly and then kiss again so that it isn't so short, but she doesn't get that same issue of feeling like you're moving too fast because it was technically just 2 short kisses.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Do you not find yourself doing those things naturally though rye? The breathing and triangle gazing etc. I dont have to think about doing those things they just happen.
And yes, Rye is right it should just feel right assuming you have the right sexual frame formed and you have done all the steps leading up to a kiss (kino escelation/comforte etc etc)

I've never paid attention to breathing patterns, cause when I start thinking about my breathing, I tend to get wrapped up in thinking about it and trying not to breathe too fast or anything due to a reduced lung capacity from injuries. As far as triangle gazing, like I said, I'll look at her lips (that's actually where I find myself looking a large portion of the time) and then I'll look in her eyes, then her lips, but I don't bother to go from one eye to the other or anything like that, generally just her right eye.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

check out the section 'closing and day 2s'

be sure to escalate kino before even thinking about kissing (i.e. you touch alot (arm on shoulder or any routine that involves touching) then try looking into her eyes for 3 seconds and if she holds the eye contact then go for it.

imo the best way in your situation would be to make eye contact for a few seconds then SLOWLY press your forehead against hers... if she pulls her head back then she is not ready... if she holds for about 3 seconds and is staring at you... you are golden

that has seemed to work for me in the past...

Doesn't this seem like an odd thing to do during a movie to you?

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

you have no idea the kind of odd things you can do in a theatre... and that isnt even one of em haha

That's not what I mean. I do all sorts of absurd things all the time, I could have picked up a couple of girls while taking home a shopping cart from work today that I'm gonna take empty bottles and cans to the depo with tomorrow; we got into ridiculous talks about racing shopping carts and if they'd been a bit younger, I woulda got them to hop in.

My point, is that WHY would you put your foreheads together while watching a movie? What possible reason is there for it? Why wouldn't you just plain kiss her. This is a completely superfluous thing to do. Guess what, I can do all sorts of crap during a pickup, or while leading up to a kiss, but that doesn't mean that it's useful, just because I CAN do it. I don't think this serves any purpose what-so-ever, thus I'm suggesting you just don't do it and skip straight to the kiss.

It sounds to me like you guys are afraid of kissing the girl and so you want some sort of magic trick to perform in order to do it. Like I said, just turn the girl's head and FUCKING KISS HER!!!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

I think you hit the nail on the head there