So, there's a fireworks display on near my place and I only knew coz there were heaps of people walking past.

This seems a golden opportunity to meet women so I follow the crowd and end up sitting with a group of 3 pretty cute girls.

The one sitting next to me was being pretty touchy feely and definately the most outgoing of the three. The mood on the whole is pretty friendly and relaxed.

So, we chat for about an hour or so before the fireworks start, and then just watch the fireworks with a bit of occasional banter. Then, we all take a photo together and I ask for the (cell phone) email of the girl that was sitting next to me.

They all seemed a little bit wierded out by that which surprised me. I told her I'd give her my hotmail address and could she send me the photo. This kind of relaxed them a bit... I asked if they'd want to go out together sometime (not really on a date. I wasn't even talking to any of them in particular, just 'you guys') and got a polite, feeble yes from the outgoing one.

My question is basically, what the fuck should my objective have been, and where do I go from here? I moved to a new city recently and don't really know many people, and think I fucked up a set that was handed to me on a silver platter.

Any and all thoughts welcome!

Thanks.

I guess you did a pretty good job.

Its nice that you took a picture with them, (maybe an ocasion to neg them a bit?)

like: oh come on, this pics looks kinda boring. You guys can do better than that...lets take another one.
(For Example: Put your arm around the outgoing girl and tell her to kiss you on the cheek.)

Something Important, dont ask for the number. Tell her to give it to you. (In a nice, not threatening way)

You could have said something like this:

"You know what, give me your number so we can out and drink something"

Oh and btw, If you go out with them, make sure to bring a wing with you.

Hope my suggestions helped you a bit.

Thanks for the comment.

She hadn't sent me the photo, but I just told her I thought she was drunk at first the way she was acting, and I would have liked to get to know the other girls but she was so loud it was hard to get a word in to them. Be interesting to see how this works! BTW I threw in some stuff about how I was happy to meet such pretty girls etc.

I've only been seriously reading up on this PUA stuff for a few days but already the world looks different. I notice stuff about people's behaviour (not just the ladies!) I've never noticed before. Case in point, I would never have thought to 'neg' this girl if the same situation had occured a week ago. I wrote the original post pretty much straight after I got back so I was in AFC mode. But having had time to think, and knowing what I know now, I can recall all the minute details of the events of that night and can critically analyse my behaviour, and that of the ladies I was with.

I havn't read The Game or any of the other books talked about on this and other sites but definately will. I was sceptical at first but this shit is definately real, and my only regret is not having discovered it earlier (I'm 26)!

I have to say as a newbie I'll pretty much be just picking everyone's brains, but as soon as I have anything worthwhile to contribute, I will not hesitate to share. So again, any and all comments are welcome!

Thanks again!

I didn't read your whole post but I dunno if that drunk comment is really that great. Was this girl the target or not? Because if so, Negging should really be a BACKHANDED COMPLIMENT now i used to fuck this up too. If you say things like that its more insulting, you need to say it like a compliment.

The easiest way to make it backhanded is to end a compliment in "...i guess"

like: That's cute, I guess...

Use neging to point out their insecurities and bring them down a peg. It makes you seem like more of a prize.

I'm pretty much quoting mystery method here but another one might be like "i think your hair would like better up" (or down, just tell her the opposite of what she currently has)

As for your situation, you'd have to make up your own backhanded compliment but something complimenting her about being so outgoing but then maybe say at first i thought you were drunk, (which would obviously make it backhanded) might be a good one. Even if you lost this set it doesn't matter, in a new city you've got a world of opportunity.