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ok i recently posted about this girl but i didnt number close becasue i knew we would be at the same party next weekend but as luck would have it i was on the same train agian yesterday but this time i just straight asked her out.......unfortunatly she declined but she said only because i like to get to know guys before i start dating them so i said cool ill guess ill take your number for now she more than happially gave it up.

i need to build comfort and attraction with her but not just for a quick lay i wouldn't mind actually dating her.


so any help would be great

im not sure how to play it

The whole point of dating is to get to know a guy, she just fed you that line to let you down easily. Plenty of fish..

she won't meet you as she doesn't know you well and she can't know you well because she won't meet you... ?

give her a call and just ask her to hang out. remove the term "date" from the conversation and just tell her you want to get to know her. daytime will help her feel comfortable. friends present wouldn't hurt, especially if they're common friends.

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thanks alot, i should know all this