I was out in a club last night and decided to go on de dance floor for a dance (I’m not really that good at dancing- but I like it so I do it, but don’t expect to get results with chicks when dancing)
I noticed this HB9 and her friend looking over at me and then she danced her way over and started to dance with me. (I would say she was one of the hottest in the club -top three anyway-) I was dancing with her but started to panic what should i do next. because it was on the dance floor I was unable to run routines i did not know what to do, i froze. I was not expecting this at all, and was plesently suprised when she started to dance, she was giving me loads of IOI's but her beauty made me panic, so i pretended to take a call and said i would be back (so i could try and think of what to do)

Later I seen her dancing with a guy (a lot better looking than me) for about 15 min and every time he went for a kiss (on dance floor) she pulled away.

Thinking about this today i think that i probably should have dragged her and her friend off the dance floor. Then talk to her and tease her by saying that she fancied me, I would then ask her to give me 3 good reasons why she would be good enough for me (kind of making a joke outa it with her friend) then when she gives me the reasons say to the friend "well I don’t know, this shit isn’t for free; do you think I should give her a chance " then I would ask her if she wanted to kiss me

Yea- then kiss her
Maybe- then kiss her
No- well i wasn’t offering, you have alot more work to do before you can get a piece of me.


What do yous think should i have done this or have you's any solutions to this prob, so that if it occurs in the future i will have a plan

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Just grab her and start dancing with her... I usually just put my hands on their belly, and a lot of times, they put their hands around there, hold her hand and thats easy Kino right there. And then... I'm not sure either, but last time, I happened to have a table, so I asked her to come chill it me. Then I just went with basic C+F stuff, games/canned liknes when I ran outa tuff to say... and it just went from there

Dancing is an easy way to escalate kino and get away with a lot of shit, that you could never get away with on the dance floor. I'm sure I don't have to tell you, you should have stayed there dancing. On the dance floor the key is to say with your eye and nonverbals all you would say in a set. You want to display confidence, sexuality (since dancing allows for a lot of kino), and the fact that you are alpha.

I noticed when I intensely looked a girl in their eyes and then looked at their body to see how they move (as if to nonverbally communicate qualification), I started being able to get a lot of kiss closes on the dance floor.

Hope this helps you out man.

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Thanks alot, i will try this out should it happen me again. I was shocked and froze, and could feel thing getting awkward as i was not making any advances. I never though of that, and it makes logical sence. sometimes you just need a push in the right direction

I really liked your routine for taking them off the dancefloor!

As for being intimidated at how hot she was, I saw a thread here that suggested focus on an aspect of them you don't find so attractive. Could just be part of their clothing, shoes, ears anything which lowers their value.

Lots of girls go out and act flirtacious on dance floors. The anonymity is fun... they enjoy it as much as we do.