Like I said before its complicated. Ohh and maybe there is misinterpritation with my slang friend with benifits is a friend that I have sex with if that is confussing you.
I have know this girl for about 5 months now. We have spent a lot of time together for the past the three months and we saw each other pretty much everyday for three straight weeks. Then last week about thurday she disappears and makes it exedingly difficult to get a hold of her and now she is back and acting like everything was the way it was before. The whole time I have know her she says I don't want a relationship but then she spends all this time with me.

I don't try to understand them.
She contacts me on messenger and is like "it was getting to be to much of a relationship so I needed my space." So I say thats fine w/e jsut let me know next time don't just disappear. (I would think she was getting some on the side if only her aunt Flow was in town if you get my meaning.)
Anyways like nay good PUA I got over my one-itis and used the down time to find some new leads and hopefully make a MLTR.