I read a list of attraction switches online and one that I came by was willingness to emote. I don't really understand how that would be shown in the field. What are some ways I can demonstrate this higher value to my target?

willingness to emote? Sorry can you rephrase that I think i might know what you're talking about.

It's one of the 4 main attraction switches, that is exactly how it is phrased. Basically what it means, is that you are showing her that you have emotions and that you aren't a cold, emotionless person, or that you are just using her and don't really care about her. You do this by "emoting", look it up in a dictionary if you don't understand what that means, because you need to understand this.

Some guys consider this to be the least important main switch, some in the middle and I'm the only one I know of that says it's the most important (at least to my game, because I'm honest and natural, I don't lie and I don't use routines, which is why other guys don't like to emote, because it shows their incongruence). If you are truly congruent, then emoting is incredibly powerful and can make not only women, but PEOPLE drawn to you all by itself.

You do this through telling stories mostly and just showing the emotions you feel when you talk about stuff, so that when something is sad, show her that it is sad, when something is crazy exciting, get excited about it and show her, make her feel it. Good emoting causes the people you are talking to to feel your emotions and feel what you're saying, it paints a picture for them and makes things more real, it makes YOU more real. Try reading this paragraph from the start again, but read it deadpan, THEN go back and read it AGAIN, only say/think it with emphasis on the capitalized words, slow down and allow yourself to feel somber and excited when I talk about showing that you are sad or excited. Note the difference, notice how much more real it is and how much more you connect to it, now start doing the same thing when you are talking to people and they will connect to you much more too.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Upgrade your Mystery brainwash to the latest version, Rye Guy! Your software is outdated.

In the several latest products Mystery has released (such as Mind of Mystery), he's always talking about the 5 main attraction switches. They are, in no particular order:
1. Preselection
2. Protector of loved ones
3. Leader of men
4. Willingness to emote
5. Willingness to take risks

Also, in addition to the points that Rye Lee has made, I'm one of the guys who thinks it's one of the most important switches, but I kinda think of it differently. Instead of demonstrating a willingness to emote, I demonstrate strong genuine emotion like passion. A story can tell anyone about a time you bawled your eyes out for your lost puppy, but actually talking about your favorite hobby with a fire in your eyes shows the real shit.

This is what happens when you step out of the community for a short while and also due to the fact that I don't read stuff that PUGs put out. I have to say that I agree though, taking risks is a major attraction switch that should be flipped, especially in order to get her to take the "risk" of being with you.

Perhaps I explained it poorly, cause the passion you speak of is what I meant. I'm just passionate about any story I tell and so when I talk about something being sad, I feel that sadness and they feel it to, so I consider that willingness to emote, although I supposed other people probably do it differently. Just like everything, there are many methods.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

I DISAGREE AND I THINK YOU EXPLAINED IT JUST FINE FOR WHATEVER AUDIENCE YOU WERE TARGETING

(drama drama drama)

Gosh when is this Brad-summoning spell going to work? Maybe we need to kill off a cast member.

*looks around forum*

Hmmm...perhaps....

*Shoots Roads*

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! NOT ROADS!!!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

OMG! YOU KILLED ROADS!
YOU BASTARD!

Actually, this "Mystery brainwash" (I hate when ppl trash talk gurus, who actually know what they are talking about) that has, yes, added a fifth switch. If you think about it Chief, the willingness to take risks is tied in with the other 4 switches anyway. How can you be a leader of men, if you don't take risks? How can you be pre-selected and have one woman or many women constantly around you, if you don't take risks? How can you be willing to emote or be a protector of loved ones if you don't take risks?

Sorry, your software is outdated