| so there is this girl that i have known for a while, and while i always thought there was a little something there, it was very evident that was the case while we were both at this camp for the past week. we didnt do anything because i was too much of a pussy to make a move but the sexual tention was CLEARLY there. anyway we returned a day ago and now she is on a cruise halfway along the world without cellphone reception. . .
. . . my question is: will the time apart and far away put me out of her head completely? , and how do i maintain the level we once had when she returns?
- Attraction isn't a choice. Time will not make her attraction for you go away, but your confidence will.
- As you said, there was some sexual tension, so she is attracted to you. Congrats, your in the first phase, now all you have to do is grow some balls and talk to her.
- You asked what can you do when she gets back to maintain the level, well do whatever was working to create the sexual tension.
IE - Teasing, Push Pull, Cocky Funny, Story telling, playing hard to get, bring dominant and leading, and the list goes on.
- Another thing I would suggest, go out and pick up other girls while your working on this one, this will give you more confidence and make you less desperate.
- Call her three days after she gets back, shoot the shit about the trip, and say " I'm heading to the coffee shop later today, come by and tell me all about our trip"
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