Me and my buddies often go to the sand volleyball courts to play, and my friends have invited some ladies to tag along. We've been doing this for almost a month now, almost every day, and I met this one girl around the same time.

I couldn't help but notice some IOI's, but I'm not quite sure if those are her intentions. She asked for my number on one of the occasions, but after she got mine, she also asked for my friend's as well. Balls. This sent me for a loop.. I assumed she wanted to be friends, but the "friend zone" was just where I thought I was headed...

This has turned out to be quite a problem for me. I'm a shy guy. My buds are better with the ladies than I am, and I've understood that. That's why it caught me off guard that she was looking at me... I'm not the child of David Beckham if you know what I mean, but I'm not ugly either. Just average looking.

We had a double's tourney today, and when we set up teams, she voluntarily called me out as her partner. Yeah, IOI I know. We play a few games, and it's all well and good, but the shyness sets in. I don't know what to say. She makes a bad hit, I follow up with "nice try" or "don't worry 'bout it."

I know this is terrible, but I didn't think of anything else to say. I'm sure I should've busted her balls or somethin' but where to start? and what to say?

It's hard to create a chemistry with the person if you hardly know them. Also, to make things a little more complicated, her brother is a year older than me, and I actually know the guy and was friends with him for a year or so before I stopped playing soccer. This was a couple years back...

Anyways, I have come to some sort of conclusion that she's using her brother as an outlet to meet guys. her bro is really popular and whatnot. But, her brother is never there when we play Vball, and I still hardly see the guy.

I'm not sure what's left to say, but I would really appreciate some help.

well she is definatly interested in ya man..when she mis's a shot neg her in a fun loving way like if its way out of her reach say o come on you should have dived or when she gets a good shot say oh your gonna b a ball hog or what lol then look at her and stick your tounge out at her then smile real big..just have fun with her cus she is very into you it sounds man...