I'm brand new here. I have some base understanding of NLP but am not quite putting something together. A gal I email and screw on the side often uses language like 'I keep having this reoccurring thought of you . . blah, blah blah.' It's always loaded like that and very suggestive. I know there has to be a solid retort. I've established report, we're already having sex and have been for some time, on the side of my primary relationship. She's aware of my primary relationship.
Any thoughts/suggestions on responding to loaded emails?
Thanks in advance,
Bones
p.s. This by far is on of the greatest communities on the net.

I hate to bump this so let me expound a little. Where should I be leading conversation from suggestive statements? If she initiates the statement and I don't respond then the statement is wasted. I don't want to quell the statement so I have to address it. But what should I be doing?

Definitely dont avoid it!!

Neg her on it... 'youre thinking about me a lot? Is it about my hot bod or is it my magnetic charisma? Actually its probably my unequalled charm right? '

Your already fucking her so your trying to avoid slipping out of the fuck-buddy zone back into the friend zone so you need to keep the sexual tension high.