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Calaris3
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What should I say if she negs herself?

For example:

"I can never play handball...I suck at it."
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Calaris3
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any ideas? :(
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She maybe is just looking for a compliment. Like telling her "Oh I'm sure you're not so bad bla bla bla." Don't fall for that.

Just tell her "Yeah... maybe you really suck at it :) " in a playful way. If she laughs and punches you playfully, then it's fine.


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thats not negging... thats just low self esteem (or maybe she just sucks at handball and was being honest about it)
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It won't make me look arrogant if I say "Maybe you really do suck at it"? :?

How's this:

Yeah, maybe you really do suck at it =P jk, you're not that bad.
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It won't make me look arrogant if I say "Maybe you really do suck at it"? :?

How's this:

Yeah, maybe you really do suck at it =P jk, you're not that bad.
The important think is how you say it. Words give only 7% of the meaning. If you are playful, you have nothing to worry about. You can add "you're not that bad" only if you have seen her playing. Otherwise it sounds like you are trying to please her. The main thing is your attitude. If you don't sound serious - she won't take it serious. It's like a girl saying to you "Ah, you're such a jerk!" and laughing/smiling. Will you feel like she's arrogant?

Just have fun. Create a playful vibe and tease her a little :)

PS: If she seems to have low self-esteem or no sense of humor, then you probably shouldn't do it.
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Well, you dont have to neg all girls. Only the high value ones.
"You suck at it? Well you probably have other virtues."
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She's fishing for validation from you. Instead say, "Of course you suck at it with that attitude, are you always this negative?" C+F of course
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"I can never play handball...I suck at it."
From what I can read, she haves really low self esteem, which means DO NOT FUCKING NEG (Or worse, agree on it)!


Just say:
"Great, I'll be your coach tomorrow then."
Funny and day 2 set up, wonderful :lol:!

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