I've just started going to a Hip Hop dance class with a couple of mates. Something that I hadn't dreamed of doing before but went for a laugh. It turns out we're outnumbered by about 8 Japanese girls. 2 other guys there.

I also find that one of the girls is really hot. She's a 9 but when she starts dancing she's a 10. We've had a little fluffy talk about where she's from but need to take it to the next level.

So, I'm looking for some ideas to get with her. She's a really good dancer and I'm crap as I haven't done it before. I could try some playful negging if I get to dance next to her, don't really know how to do that though. Was also thinking as a group could invite them over the road to Starbucks with us or maybe try to get hold of her email or phone number and take it from there.

Any ideas folks? I've only got a couple more days till the next dance class!

Game her like normal... All people have their strengths and weaknesses, that she is a better dancer does not giver her a higher social status. Just stay off the topic and talk about other things.

Cool, I'll keep off the subject. Any other tips anyone? cheers

im no Pro on this but my idea would be to isolate her

if possible even try to be her dance partner

just a guess but if you two are dance partners that means coming into physical contact quite a lot and getting her to relax around you and then after class you may have an easier time gaming her

become popular amongst the girls - i.e. dont go for your target, just introduce yourself, chat a bit about it, get to know them in general. perhaps tell some of them about an interesting party thats going on.

but dont give the impression that you want something back from them. then, as you become more accepted in the group, everything will become easier. they'll also make great pivots for clubbing/parties!

Well the Hip Hop dance class has become very interesting of late. I'm actually a bit better at the dancing than I thought I would be and have improved a lot.

The hot Japanese girl is still there, must be a 9 or a 10. She's quite flirtatious with her smiles and eyes. I've talked to her a few times but she finds it hard to understand me because her English isn't great although my Japanese is non existent apart from a couple of words.

Anyway the dance instructor has said we should all go out in 2 weeks time for drinks and I'm thinking this would be a great opportunity to get to know the girl better. We might even get to do our Hip Hop dancing on the dance floor later on in a club.

Has anyone got any advice for me to take this further with this language barrier?

im no expert at PU, but now entering my area of expertise...japanese women. haha

I lived in Japan for 10 years. I had some interesting experiences.

Japanese girls are very playful, but they also are extremely shy. In Japanese culture, it is not common for a woman to make the move. She's waiting for you to do it. Sounds like she likes you. go for heavy kino. and dont expect her to ever move in for a kiss. again, she needs/wants to be dominated.

if you want some language pointers... you can say something like:

"sugoi, [her name +chan] no dancu ga umai desu ne. chanto oshite ne...ishou ni renshuu shyou yo"

translation: wow, you're a great dancer. common teach me, we should study/learn/practice together.

hope that helps. let me know how it works out.

That's brilliant man, cheers. I need to get practicing with this Japanese. I'll let you know how it goes.

Not quite sure where I stand now. Was walking home from town with a couple of friends and from the opposite direction came the hot girl from the Hip Hop dance class that I like. She immediately put her lovely smile on but when I approached to talk to her she carried on walking around me and shouted out "Next time, see you on Wednesday".

All of a sudden I felt like an AFC. I couldn't work out if she was avoiding me because of her shyness or because she doesn't speak much English.

Well we're all supposed to be going out for drinks after the class on Wednesday so shall have to see how that goes. Maybe I can make fun of her shyness or something.

The night out with the Hip Hop dancing class girls went OK in the bar. There were positives and negatives.

It started off well with some flirting with the girls including the one that I like. We all played pool and danced around the table. The dance instructor was extremely flirtatious and kept touching me and dancing with me and during these moments I could see my target getting jealous. Being with all these girls got a lot of attention from other girls in the club too.

Unfortunately I made the usual error of drinking too much and messed up my chances with the nice one by the end of the night. Twice she wanted her photo taken with me and says she will give me the picture next time at dance class.

Anyway, hopefully I've built some foundations to get to know her better now.

ok man, my input is kino the shit out of her, next time she blows you off punish her with lack of attention, then push pull. hands on, but shit your in dance class so by now you should be used to it lol. make her jealus but be around so she can try for your attention. thats what i would do.

oh and why not just fuck some of the other dancers? dont get hung on a girl bro

Good words lads, good words. I'll have a go at these tactics. If I was to fuck the instructor it would probably improve my chances with the target anyway.

No I don't want to get hung up on one girl but she is hot and I'm enjoying the chase.

This week at dance class was fun. The HB 9 wasn't really smiling at me like she normally does (maybe because I drank too much on our night out) so I blanked her and flirted with the others in the group. I noticed she kept fiddling with her eye in the mirror in front of me to get attention but I blanked it. Was funny!