Hi guys. I suppose I will introduce myself here and start off with my first question. I've been interested in PUA for a while.

I've briefly studied it...listened to the Mystery Method Interview Series, and started heading to the bars.

Believe it or not, a number close is incredibly easy for me. When the nights getting ready to end, whether it be last call or what have you....I just pull my phone out and say 'hey, let me get your number', or 'put your number in here'. Without hesitation, they do. And the following days, we can go on and chat as friends. We meet up a few times the following days out in town, and everything is all "friendly"; and unfortunately it stays that way. When I try to transition past friendly... I'm not having very good luck. I know its in the way I'm doing it. I'm going to listen to the interview series on Transitioning again, but I figured I'd drop a post in here too.

I have a feeling it has something to do with my body language when were out in town, due to the fact that I'm probably pretty buzzed when we're talking. I'm going to start paying more attention to my body langauge, but if anyone else has any tips...I'm all ears.

Another thing too I noticed is that...my buddy (who isn't into PUA), is usually always buying the drinks for these girls even though I'm talking with them. I've read that only the AFCs or just the 'C's in fact are the ones that buy the drinks. Could this be it? Is buying the drink a DHV or what?

Thanks

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Buying a drink doesn't work for two reasons. 1. Everyone does it. PUA are the exception to the rule. 2. Buying a drink is jumping through her hoop. You want make her jump through a few or yours, before you jump through hers.

How much kino do you do with the girls. Kino is key if you want to transition into a relationship or whatever. Infact I had a girl break up with me because there was very little kino in the relationship. I didn't know this then, but I made her so easy for her to see me as just a friend. Hence she broke up with me.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

Hopeless romantic is spot on - kino is everything here.

If you've got that base covered, then here's a test for you. Next time you number close a girl - do it aggressively.

"Hey, give me your number and a kiss."

or if you're feeling bold

"Okay, give me your number and we'll arrange to have sex some time"

Put your phone in their hand and kiss them lightly on the lips. Let's see somebody LJBF you after that! You may not get the number, but are you looking for friends?

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.

Like they said KINO! Its one of the most important things you can do. You should do things that are not expected (nothing too drastic) just be exciting when your out.

When your on day 2s think ahead of time of the things your going to be doing and how you can escalate kino.

Also, try to be untouchable and in control, make the girl feel like she needs you as more than a friend.

How do I come off as not being creepy? having confidence in my actions and myself? What type of kino do I start with? How fast do I escalated?

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

As soon as you open the set you should start friendly kino and just come off as the touchy guy. When you tell stories touch them on the shoulder etc.

Daygame is different from clubs because at clubs most of the women have been drinking and are affected by the environment so you can allow yourself to be more touchy. Your daygame should be more friendly and low key, you need to read the targets body language and just get used to knowing how far your pushing it. Its mainly just experience.

Your kino should go from being friendly to seductive, more seductive kino should be started once you recieve some IOIs. It should go in steps and in each step you should read her to see if she is not fighting it and if she is take a couple steps back.