Hey guys. I was at the clubs last night and i was dancing and grinding with an HB9. We danced for like 15 minutes and then she turned and said "I'll be right back I'm gonna go get a drink.". I just said "ok". Is there anything I could have said that showed a DHV and like I wasn't trying to hold on to her?

When she comes back make sure she sees you talking to someone else...

Then be like, "Oh, sorry I forgot about you. "

What you mustn't do is stand there, quiet, looking at the floor.

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Did you talk to her before you humped her leg?

Generally, when girls "go to get a drink", or to the "bathroom", its usually because they want to get rid of you.

Did you DHV before you danced, or did you approach as if you were chasing her? Did you build comfort and attraction before you put yourself into a sexually charged situation with her? If not, she's not going to be into it and she'll escape as soon as she can make an opening for herself.

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Yeah did she come back?

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well what i do when i approach girls on the dance floor i just start dancing, hold out my hands and wait for hers, and go from there, i saw it in a video. she was liking it because she had her hands all over me.

but anyways, as she was gone i was talking and laughing with my friend and i told him how i noticed most of the guys were on the side and the girls were in the middle, and there was no physical barriers but most of the guys just stood there. So when she came back it picked up from where I left off. I didn't hold out my hands this time because if i did, she probably would have thought i was asking for the water, so i just used my finger to tell her to come over. she started dancing on me again and just went from there. Its just that when she left I kind of felt that I was rejected not knowing for sure if she would come back.

What you did sounds OK.

> Its just that when she left I kind of felt that I was rejected not knowing for sure if she would come back

Maybe you're over analyzing it. Some girls really do just need to grab a glass of water or go to the toilets.

If she's gonna bail, I don't think using one MAGIC line before hand (no matter how c/f it is) will change her mind.

Of course the most important thing is to ACT like it doesn't really matter if she doesn't come back. And it doesn't. You're on fire, and that is all that matters.

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haha thats what i did. even though i was thinking at the time i was rejected, i just continued to stay on fire

thanks man

Just to wrap this up, even if she did run away, two things would have happened here.

1) All the guys in the vicinity will have saw you grinding with that chick, and they'll be thinking, "Damn, what has he got that is so special?" You're DHVing.

2) All the girls in the vicinity will think you're alpha, and they will be more likely to acquiesce if you start grinding with them.

However, don't rely chicks to give you your confidence.

Imagine you fall in love, it is incredible. You feel fantastic and confident? This is because you are with them and they are generating that feeling? Right? Wrong. In fact, you brought it all with you. You may look to them to trigger it but even if they go to the other end of the planet, you'll still have that feeling and they're nowhere near you.

You have to find confidence for yourself. Clue: It's the one place you'd never think of looking, yep, right inside of you.

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Well Dan144, I dont know what you should've said but I know what you should've done to DHV; eject!!! Instead of staying right there for her to return(DLV and telegraphing too much interest), you could've moved or leave all together(bounced), then return.

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