girl i met on myspace and hung out for first time 2 weeks ago is now chasing me...

after our day 1 i never called or anything because i simply wasnt interested, 5 days later she starts texting me and calling me with no real purpose...im too busy to talk on the phone.

i call in the middle of the week to set up a day 2(?) and she sounds extremely nervous saying she cant talk. I hear a voice in background say "she cant she's with her boyfriend!" real pissed off like lol.

it didnt matter to me and she asked if she could call me back i said thats fine...she did about an hour later and i did not answer.

2 days later she calls me at 1am and leaves a voice mail that she "really really really really really really wants to talk to me" blah blah...i call her about 13 hours later and she tells me how "did i tell you i had a boyfriend?" and right before i boyfriend destroy her she tells me they broke up today...so we are supposed to hang out a little later because im free that day.

Time comes...she calls and says she's gonna be like 10min late...im cool with this...i wait 30min though (probably too long) and call her she has no good reason for being so late so i told her nevermind and that i was going to go home...so now im back home haha....

morale of the story...dont put up with girls shit. Ive had girls in the past complain to me that i put up with too much stuff...so obviously they had been testing their boundaries at that time and i just didnt know it...

im curious to see where this situation will go

Keep us updated, id be interested in seeing where this goes. On a similar note... is there anyway you can behave to avoid these shit tests and girls flaking (before they happen)?

hmm... next time someone flakes, it's better to pretend that you didn't go at all... "Sorry I couldn't go balblablla" than to ask her "why didn't you show up blalbalbal"

I think one of the mods said this, and im sure its for good reason

lol she was on her way there so i wouldnt say she was "flaking" (she was in her car driving there when i called) but she was taking way too long without any good reason. If i can be on time then i expect someone else to do the same or at least have a good reason why they cant be.