Hey guys wanna ask a question how would an ex boyfriend destroyer vary from a Boyfriend destroyer I take it you dont still defend him and put him in the nice guy category?

The reason I ask is I been flirting with this girl for a couple of weeks now but she says she's not ready to go out with me yet coz of problems with her Ex boyfriend who she broke up with a month ago. At the moment I have been avoiding the subject because I figure any critiscim of the Boyfriend could cause her to justify why she was attracted to him in the first place and send her back his way. The impression I get was it was the boyfriend was the one who ended the relationship and she is the one who got hurt so I have no moral objections about blowing the prick out of the watter. But its staring to piss me off and cockblocking me more than any boyfriend could. I dont think I can use a normal boyfriend destroyer and cant really deffend the guy coz it will just cause me to be at odds with her aswell.

Any Ideas?

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You don't "put" him in to any "nice guy"-category.

Boyfriend destroyers are all about making the girl's boyfriend seem like a beta-male (Beta-male is the opposite of alpha male).

But this is easy, since the girl isn't in a relationship at all. To me it just seems like you have became her "personal psychiastric", but no worries mate!


When she tells you about her boyfriend leaving her and how it happened, you could just ask "Isn't that kind of bitchy?" which after she will, no matter what, answer "Yes.".
See? You didn't say anything, you just asked. She herself found an answer. Now say "I understand." and change the topic (P.S. just a hint, game her! ).

Also, "just hang out" with her at first, you don't need to make it a date if you want to meet her.

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She's definitely challenging you, how would an ex stop her if she was into you, you really need to lay off and then renew your game on her, what you really want is to demonstrate that you are superior to her ex, that whatever threat he poses you can counter, this shows higher survival rate, after demonstrating that her ex is irrelevant to your relationship you have to start to build an excitement about your relationship. I went through the same thing with a girl who seemed really devoted to her boyfriend; I focused on how wrong our realtionship was and this flipped attraction switches in the girl which cannot be turned on in normal relationships. Dont give up bro.

I currently am an exboyfriend who is scilently cock blocking about 12 guys by just existing.

My ex is a Brunette10 who has had literally about 20 guys after her since we started going out. Due to my physical nature, none have confronted me face to face. I am now a professional Anti-boyfriend Destroyer...Destroyer. <---Terminology and spelling probably wrong.

Difference being, I was stupid and tryed to have an equall relationship and fell for her lies and deception as all hot girls do. Make no mistake. This girl is unstable if an Ex is capable of affecting her this much. You may fall pray like him. He may be the one whos hurt. Most likely, judging by how hot this girl is, she may be lieing to make her self look better.

The hotter the girl, the more she lies. Walk on sandpaper bro, you are in a bad situation from the start. As for the Ex. Every time she mentions your name to him is enough to make him put you through a glass wall. Go ahead and feed him. Talk to him. Let him blow up and make mistakes.

Now, I do realize, while unlikely, you may very well be one of the 20 im dealing with currently.

Fools Mate bro. No one is going to stop my short term sole-physical relationship i have going on right now. And if you are... You are not the only guy shes going on dates with. You have to consider she is using the Ex- Thing on a couple of guys... Girls have their own game... And that shits deep... I cant even explain it correctly.. All this is probably making no sense, thats how good their game is.

It has reduced my knowledge to jibberish.

Yeah thats what I been trying to avoid coz the last thing I wanna do is to be at her beck and call for any trouble with the ex coz the next thing I hear will be LJBF lol. So I kinda just avoided the subject at the moment coz I dont want that to happen. I think one of the problems tho is that I just been facebooking her lately and need to be face to face with her like you sais so I can game her. Cheerz for the advice bro!

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Anytime

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