hey guys, Im a new member, I was already checking on this forum for some days, I even had an account sometime ago, but I just forgot my username
cutting the conversation...


theres this hb8 I've know for some time, she was showing interest from the day we met, I tought to myself "im gonna game her"...as I was not gaming for sometime
anyway, It was all going pretty well(we talked mostly on msn)
I met her this weekend and she was all over me, being playful, teasing... really intimate
I was going to K-close her but ended not doing it as I tought there were no really perfect situation for it that day and as things were flowing nice that way(may have dispersed here... the friends who were with me even commented that, but I was cool)

then, back on msn we were talking and I asked her to go see the muse concert on VIP with me this weekend, she doesnt know the band, I showed her some clips and then she accepted, it was all good, but two days later I asked if she wanted to go buy the tickets with me, she was silenced, then I said "reformulating, are you still going to porão do rock?" ps: Im from Brasil, porão is a rock festival we have in my city, and its like the unique chance of seeing a big band the whole year.
and she replied "I dont know, baby" I felt really dissapointed, said "your loss", then didnt say anything more...

what now? Im really mad with this, dunno if its the girls here who acts childish like this, but Ive already had this kind of disapoint with some girls and seriously I have no patience for this kind of girl

what should I do?

ps: yesterday at college my friend met her and said she was "easy for me" asking about me and blablabla

I'll try uping my topic this one time...
the gig is saturday ;O

I'm still new to this but here is my input on the situation...

She never downright said "No", you might have reacted too soon by saying "your loss". To me it sounds like you should try being persistent with her. Ask her again to go, but this time try to explain to her how it will be an awesome time and she wont regret going. You almost need to talk her into or "sell" her the date (In the same way that a car salesman sells a car to someone). Talk about how awesome the festival will be or how good the band is, how much fun the two of you will have, or anything else to ensure to her that it will be a good time and that she can feel comfortable with you. Maybe try calling her or talking to her in person though, it can be difficult to understand people through the internet/text sometimes. Good luck, let us know how it goes.

Exactly.

I agree you gave up on the date TOO early bro, she didnt really reject you "I don't know baby" i dont know the chick but if she's calling you baby and asking about you all the time then she doesnt seem like the chick that DOESN'T want to go on a date with you, she didnt know of the band you mentioned earlier, ask yourself is she really into this band stuff or are you going to be the boyfriend who drags his girl to all the concerts she doesnt want to go to... try a different date some girls just ain't into bands/concerts

Keep going with this one, hope its not too late.

if it is, Hey, We live and We learn.

thanks for the advice guys...
this is what I've done

I txt her something like "you aint worth a penny, huh [name]? =p"
then she came on messenger and said she didnt understand... I said nevermind

later she came again asking me to explain what was going up

I said I was disappointed because I really wanted her company at the best gig in history(heh), 'but it was ok'
she said maybe she couldnt go cause there 'was something going on'(my english failed me this time..) but that she's gonna try to come with me

[THIS IS JUST PLOT] later this day my friend invited me to do something at his college, there I met her with his girlfriend, my friend went to his class and as I was leaving I met them again and they called me to watch her class(lol, this got me nervous, cause Im not allowed to do that) when I got there the class was something like reproduction systems education.. kinda funny, later on I even got to participate in class and played with her hair a bit...[/NOT VERY IMPORTANT]

on half time we got something to eat, and she ended up saying she was a ruminant animal(LOL!) I mocked her a lot, they tried to get me to watch the rest of the class, but I didnt go, I txt her mocking her again for being a ruminant animal and she replied saying "you love me!" and I didn't reply, today she txt'd again saying "my fan! you love me! =D"

that's kind of a shit test, huh? what would you guys say ;P

dont need to mention we are really in a confort and playful state, almost ljbf zone, but I think I can still Kclose her confortably!

i'm a little confused bro, that second story had nothing to do with the first right? It sounds like a classic flake. I think you needed to build more comfort with her.

if you have trouble communicating in english, just let me know, Portuguese was my minor in college.

heheh no, it's the same girl on both

normally i would probably do a simple response whatever or use the opportunity to say "if you say so".. some girls think its funny if you over-exaggerate a yes but thats usually better in person not text for tone of voice.

"keep thinking that" is an okay response but you might want to avoid it until you can think of a better line to say...experiment with other girls, girls say "You know you love me" all the time

Ill say it next time she comes with the love her thing...

damn pals, good and bad news

bad news is that yesterday my friend(i'd say ex-friend, now..) started picking up a fight with some street guy for no reason... I tried to stop them and the other guy hit me with a bottle in the forehead , I started bleeding instantly... had to suture it... man, this really sucks :/ hope the scar won't be very ugly....

Im kinda sad with what happened, but Ill go to the gig and the girl said she'll probably come... peace y'all