I've been having trouble working on my game because i'm not motivated. I feel overwhelmed at times and just get discouraged. So I feel like I'm trying to take in too much at once. I've been told that inner game is the first thing that I should work on, so any advice on where to start from here would be greatly appreciated.

yep, thats absolutely true. And this is such a huge trap so many people fall into-they all want to get out there and sarge...and they'll find themselves failing miserably coz they're emotionally depressed!

But yeah, the first thing you should be working on, even before *inner game* are you personal issues. Are you depressed? Are you in debt? Is your job really shit and it depresses you? It all depends on what's getting you down apart from women.

Then comes your *inner game*. Inner game tends to be generally about your fears with women, past hurts, blah blah blah.

Then your outter game. The approach, the close, instant date, time contraints, negs, push/pull....all that shit.



But if you're feeling overwhelmed, one small step at a time. Give yourself plenty of time to improve. Just concentrate on improving one thing at a time. Write out a list of things you want to improve, look at them, then work on each one individually. Take your time you'll get there

If you just want to get laid, do something like this:

Work out for 2 weeks. Hard. Whether you look shitlouads better or not, it is irrelevant. take my word for it.

Next - go to the hairdressers and have the girl give you a style that suits you.

Next - go to the mall and pick a really stylish outfit. Fuck peacocking for now, just make sure you look like you came out of a clothes line magazine.

Next - start socializing. Try to make some male friends who have a good social circle. Bars are a good plat to meet people, as are smoking areas. Ugly girls too. One of the very besdt friends you can have is a 20yr old fat chick. Just take my word for that too.

Start being cocky and funny. If you were the shit, what would you say to people? how would you walk? How would you talk? Act like it.

When a girl gives you several f-me IOIs (especially looking into you rleft eye, then right eye, then go in for a kiss.

when ever you a re feeling unmotivated, chicks can feel that and will be put off, unless they want to mother you. not nescessaily the types most guys want to atract, i'd say.

my advice: Check out what has you feeling so under motivated. Forget anyone telling you where to start, sarging, inner game, whatever.

You can learn a bunch of techniques for pick up, but unless you really want something for yourself, you'll be half assed and basically be downgrading your self esteem bit by bit. What are you really passionate about? What does get you motivated?

Whatever it is, do it a bunch for a while so you feel a little better about yourself, then add new stuff. Some guys drop all this and just go to the gym so they can feel good about their bodies. Thats a great way to get ones energy up if its what you want. For me, I'm really motivated when I have a new idea, so when I'm in a slump I totally get into the new idea, so I can feel me again. Then I can take on new things.

Like boys ; )

I think there are two routes to inner game repair.

The first is the hard way. You fix everything that is wrong with your life. you get that hair cut, you lose that Christmas weight (from Christmas 2004!), you get out and sarge and get good with women. You will gain that confidence from showing yourself that you can be the person you want to be. It's a long road, and it's not easy, but you will be a new man at the end of it.

The second way is a little bit of a shortcut. There are a number of options out there for self hypnosis tracks. Approaching Confidence by PUAtraining is very good, as is The Confidence Collection by Hypnotica. TCC also includes tasks for you to complete in between the meditation tracks. This route will make you feel more confident almost immediately. It will give you courage to get out and open sets. It will show you how the other half live (IMO!!).

Having said that, the second option is not really a second option. The first option is the only path to take, but the second option will give you a jump start. It will set you down the path and give you the courage to do what you need to do. All you need to do then is put in the HARD WORK.