how can i get ride on A VERY BAD ONITITS like i cant sleep cuz i keep thinking why cant i get this girl... its stupid but i just need some help
i know people are gunna say well get a new girl its different ya know

You can't sleep? Because of some girl who won't give you the time of day? That's seriously fucked up... you do know that trying to figure out why she doesn't want you is actually part of the problem, right? What do you mean, "I can't get her", anyway? Theres no such thing as can't. What have you been doing to try and get her so far?

You care too much about her and it's a huge turn-off. Girls hate neediness, they hate insecurity, and the more you chase a girl the more she runs because she knows that to get into a relationship with a guy who is needy and insecure will end very badly. Put yourself in her shoes... I wouldn't get into a relationship with a girl who was needy and clingy nomatter how hot she was, nomatter how cool she was, because I know and accept that most relationships come to an end and I'd rather not have some girl following me around and begging me to take her back and causing all sorts of problems for me when it does. So, to her, it's easier to deal with you now than it would be if she gave you a chance with her. I mean it, really look at your situation from her point of view and you'll understand. The only way to deal with this is to stop paying attention to her and start focusing on other things. She may wonder why you've changed and start to chase you, or she may not notice... either way, anything is better than the situation you're in now.

Daz is right. I'm not going to be nice about it though. I went through a similar feeling and Fiction was an ass to me and it helped me a lot.

Basically you're riding the chode rollercoaster right now. You handed your balls over to her on a silver platter and she's stomping on them.

People dont lose sleep over girls, they lose sleep over deaths. So think about how pathetic you're being right now, and all the negative qualities you've showed her and start changing the way you're behaving around her. As harsh as all this is, I'm trying to snap you out of you're desperate state.

"You can't get her" is the wrong mentality. "She can't get you" is what you should be thinking. Blow the bitch off and tell her whats up. THIS SHIT AINT FO FREE. Taha.

_________________
I'm addicted to facing my fears.

fuck yea! whats so stupid is that she liked me like me about 2 years ago and a little off and on last year... so you think my changing i can still get with her? what qualities would i have to show?

Demonstrate high value- come up with good/funny stories to tell her

Neg her- this will take your clingliness look away depending how good you're at it. By negging her and being cocky-funny you're showing her that she's not important. Just a girl, which is all you should think of her.This right here, might start to draw her towards you. Cat string theory- people want what they can't have.

Also, show confidence and security with yourself. Don't let things she says effect you(atleast don't show her they effected you).
Above all you gotta realize she's just one of a billion. If you don't get her, her loss.. but then you gotta move on cuz oneitis can terrorize people if it gets too bad.

hell yah bro onitits sucks balls haha but yah, like if she says something idk but just ignore her if i dont like it and if i can think of something cocky funny then do it? like when she gets online should i IM her or just wate untill next time i see her and sow her the new me son.. haha