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i'm unusually tall (over 6'5) and i have been told by girls that they think i am looking down their shirts while talking to them because of the height (lol), but am considering getting sunglasses to help solve that problem...good idea, or do sunglasses add to the creepiness factor??
also, might it be considered creepy for a guy in highschool to approach and start a conversation with a random girl, even if the approach is delivered great? i know from experience that the deliverance of the approach is very important, but it hasn't seemed enough to overcome the wall of creepiness i encounter when dealing with girls in the highschool spectrum...
Don't get sunglasses, I think that would add to the creepy factor. The fact that you have been accused of looking down girls shirts tells me that (chances are) you are standing a little to close for their comfort. Also it tells me you are probably facing them directly possibly even leaning forward.
To provent situations like this you should try to approach girls that are sitting down. That way you can sit down next to them while being close, on their eye level and not directly facing them. Also you should lean a bit backwards and see if she leans in toward you (IOI).
Another thing you bring up with is the fact your in high school. Girls like guys have their own little groups that they hang out with and can get spooked when a total stranger approaches them. You can get around this though by acting like you think you have class with them or have seen them before.
For example: You see a random girl at High School... approach
You: Hey, I went out last night and totally forgot to do my math homework. Can I see/copy yours?
HB: Um, I don't know you and Im not in your class.
You: You sure? There is this one girl that looks just like you... blah, blah, blah