| Hi guys first up i'm a AFC trying to change my ways so pls don't flame me to much !
Ok i met this girl about a month ago and she is insanely hot, we met through a self help group - i had a few probs with social anxiety (but i don't appear a shy person quite the opposite) - so we met had a chat i built some comfort/attraction in and left - got home email waiting for me from her....
So we got talking via email/text etc and we've shared quite a lot of stuff and have a lot of common interests, but I dont think she felt comfortable meeting at the start so i played it cool not wanting to overdo it....
We randomly bumped into each other last week on a night out, she was with her mates and some random dudes, and i was with mine at this point we said hello and she was doing the usual girl bouncing around guy thing, so again i played it cool as at this point i knew i liked her but was unsure if she had the same feelings or was just in it for a bit of fun... I got home and on my phone i'd left behind there was an inv from her to go out that night with her + some friends....
So at this point there wasn't really much more to say we need to meet properly, but i wasn't to sure on asking her out one to one as previous she had avoided the question.... and i was still really unsure about how she felt and would rather walkaway than get myself into a dog following the bone around situation - so to get under her defenses I told her that i thought we could be great mates and wanted to hang out, no reply for a week then Q the story about x BF trouble and she really wants to get to know me better - thats and i get the impression she was disappointed as she was hoping for more....
Tonight was her bday celebrations and i said i would meet her in a club - she went to some bars with her friends b4 and i went to some bars with mine, goto club queue she was a way infront looking insanely hot, the club is a real pretentious place and i've never had probs gettining in b4 but as we 2 dudes we got blown out by some club women from the queue...
So all she saw of me was me standing towards the back of the q one min looking cold and miserable (we'd been there for ages) and the next min were not there and didnt show up in the club.... looking back i think we gave in to easy and should've done more but my AFC feelings overrode common sense and i felt like a complete prik...
She said she was over her BF, and it's her bday night out plus she's insanely hot, and will have guys hitting on her left right and centre im really unsure what to do now, if id got into the club she'd be mine, but now i feel i negged her to much, and as all this stuff happened and im a no show im wondering if she'll be looking around and lose interest
I was thinking of calling her tmrw night letting her know what happened, and arranging next week to meet, but considering how finely balanced i feel this is i need some expert advice especially i need to find out if she met anyone - drunk hot single bday girls are going to pull....
So thanks for reading my essay and hope u guys can help me with this!
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