| Last night was a different kind of triumph for me - pure satisfaction - the girls did the work for me.
My bro and I started out fairly late for a Sunday night. We got to the bar area around 1:20 AM and took about 20 minutes to decide on which bar was out best bet. We went to a place called Zollis Pub.
After seeing the great improvement through body language etc. the night before, I continued to focus on that. Within the first few minutes of me sitting there (my bro was getting some food across the way) the HB7.5 walked by and makes eye contact. Shortly after, she came up to me (followed by her friend, HB7.5 also) with an empty leader mug. She tried to tell me to keep it, so I decided to play some C&F with her.
Me: "Why would I want this mug?"
Her: "You can fill it or something"... bla bla bla
Me: "Why don't you keep it? It might come in handy."
Her: Hey, you could fill it with water if you get thirsty."
Me: Hey, if your hiking around the desert, you might need it. Besides, I was raised not to accept gifts from strangers."
Her: Some response bla bla bla...
We introduce ourselves, then just in time, my bro walks up and starts entertaining and flirting with the other one. They get to talking which leaves myself and my HB to talk. They sit down with us and we each have our respective conversations for about an hour. By the way, they were with a group which they broke off from when we started talking. Every so often, she would mention that they should catch up with them, but ended up staying by us instead. Throughout the whole conversation (which was of very good quality), I kept my posture up, didn't lean in, didn't do anything but smile, speak loudly and be myself. HB7.5 initiated a bunch of Kino, leaned in to hear me if the music got too loud, gave me both her Israeli and American phone numbers (she lives in Brooklyn and I frequent NYC when I have time), and by the time they had to leave, had asked to make sure she had mine right.
She asked for a second date and told me her availability. I told her we might give them a call when we're done at the bar if we aren't too tired. A hug, kiss on the cheek etc. and right before they left, my sister called (which was great), so I even negged her a little by talking on the phone as she said goodbye. I ended up calling her like an hour later, (like 3:20 AM) but I think that she was asleep. I had told her I would be going to the north for a couple of days, but if I didn't we'd catch up today.
I'm gonna go north and not say anything until Wednesday when I get back. Any thoughts on that last part?
I was iffy on calling last night because I wanted to keep that dominant position (I haven't heard back from her), so should I just text her Tuesday night / Wednesday afternoon, or should I play some text games with her? I'm really not sure, so any advise would be appreciated.
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-Insight
"A wise man knows only that he knows nothing."
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