I walked into the shoe shop and spotted a really cute HB8. I walked upto her and opened with "Whats with the high heels shoes I can tell your not gonna be walking far in those things"

She giggled then I teased her more about her shoes. She told me that shes off to South France on monday. I tell her about my travels in South France. She asks me what I do (IOI). This point I run my DHV story and she stays put and listens to what i have to say.

After about 30 mins she says she has to go.

me: "We should hangout sometime"
hb: "I do have a boyfriend"
me: "Well i can only promise you some cool conversation when you get back so long as you dont fantasize about me being naked cleaning your outdoor swimming pool"

She is back in a months time...from her travels.

She giggles and says cool and says here take my number. She types in her number.

I realized later she was 19 years old and i am almost twice her age. But she was cool though.

Question a girl goes away for a month. Would you send her an SMS each week. Or just leave it till she gets back ?. I read somewhere women have a very short attention span.

Would you just day 2 an HB as normal and then escalate if she has a boyfriend ?