Okay I didnt want to post in this section because it isnt a god damn newbie question but apparently I need atleast 30 posts in order to put it where it belongs, what a load of shit BUT anyhow...

So yesterday I was at a wedding. Its my cousins wedding and im happy for him. I'm 18, im single and theres no one there my age, so Im a bit annoyed theres noone I can atleast try and game, because although there were alot of good looking women there none would take me seriously because they were all about 30 and have known me and my family since I was like 6. So it made me think about the way people judge other people, and as I was chatting to a couple of these girls who were kind of giving me the 'aww hes so cute' fucking lame SPAM and they switched the subject onto this guy sitting on another table to our left, this guy is an actor, a good mate of my cousins. Hes a good looking bloke (im not gay its just obvious when someone is good looking or not am I right?) and they immediately start saying shit like "oh hes gorgeous" or "Wouldn't mind a bit of him tonight" and one of them goes up and starts talking to him, just like that. Theres another guy to my right who was trying to get that girls attention, not being needy or anything but she just completely blanked him (he wasnt as good looking).
I felt bad for the guy, he'd been ignored. So heres when I started thinking about the game and this society of PUA's, and hearing about how you dont have to be good looking to pick up women, and yet another of the hundreds of seeds of doubt was laid in my mind, as as much as I would like to think you dont have to be good looking to get laid, I just cant accept it. Unfortunately for me I hate my looks with a passion and if I could change them I would in a heartbeat, but ive come to accept them more recently, but when im yet to see a good looking woman with a guy who isnt good looking - it makes me wonder - how can any of this shit work if you arent good looking? I just dont get it.
Women are just as shallow as we men are, and I dont think that can change. Like I said ive yet to see a good looking woman with an ugly man, doesnt happen. Anyone got any proof of otherwise? Im losing faith in the game.

bump bump bump I want some answers!
So many people on this site seem never to talk about the way women talk about guys looks. FUcking hate myself right now

GOOD! FINALLY SOMETHING I CAN ANSWER!

lol I don't answer questions unless I feel I'm qualified to...and I definitely am here.

Looks do NOT matter, but presentation DOES.


I’m really not that good looking, and girls sometimes come up and talk to me. LOL my hotornot rating is like 7.6. (Hot, on that site, is like 9 plus). I always used to have this worry that my nose was so frikkn’ huge and that it would be a mega turn off.

This guy…sometimes girls talk to guys first. If he’s hot, sometimes girls will say hello!

But if he turns out to be a loser…he’ll be rejected in NO TIME.

But…girls will come up to me in a club and talk to me, coz I look like I’m having fun, I’m relaxed, I’m friendly.

Girls are attracted to status, and how emotionally strong you are. Not looks (a little bit, but not to the extent we are).

Example?

One of the leaders of my local PUA lair is physically very unattractive (sorry if you’re reading this! :p)

But MY GOD does he project charisma and confidence…first time I met him, he was with 2 STUNNING girls (and I mean WOW!!!), shakes my hand with a great smile, and he just made me feel really damn good about myself.

But just look at Mystery. Who the fuck would want to look like him? He looks like a creepy cult leader or something! But when it comes to getting laid…he’s the best. Simply the best. Ask anyone in the community, and they’ll say mystery is the god at getting laid. And he’s HIDEOUS!!!!!

Go on, look up a picture of him and tell me you don’t find him attractive!


By the way, I wrote an article, and you might like it. I’d recommend it to you. The link’s below

Also, get “Hypnotica: Ultimate Inner Game”. www.ultimateinnergame.com

It’s the most powerful stuff I’ve ever used…all your inner game issues will be sorted with him. Its worth the investment, think about it. What’s $200, when you can easily blow $100 on a big night out on the town? (drinks, cab, entrance fees). Think about it, let me know.

But yeah, I recommend reading my article first, it should help you out a bit.



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Dude,

I go out dressed in combats, spiked boots, baseball cap and scruffy shirt.

I am also 19 stone (not belly) with a long goatee.

I drink in some of the most fashionable bars in my city at times - dressed like this - walk in like you own the place and the bouncers say nothing...

My point is - as long as you aint john merret - looks dont count that much.

I have pulled HB10's a few times and it's all down to my confidence, which borders on arrogance, my fun attitide and my ability to hold down an intelligent conversation whilst running game.

I aint been out for a few weeks coz of work pressures, but I'm off out again tonight to rehone the skills.

I suggest that you take a trip to somewhere and just do it - as the ad says.

No-one knows you, therefore no pressure. It helps on the building confidence front. I'm 29 and can still f-close with 19 year old students coz of my attitude - i make their dumb ass student friends look like morons in a sutble alpha way. Nail that and you got it bro.

Keep the faith and remember...

Looks DONT count - attitude does.

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Yes it is. This question is about one of the most basic limiting beliefs that shape an AFC's reality.
This is why we have the 30 post rule. If I saw that in the lounge I would have moved it to the Newbie Board.

This is how good looks help guys: Look Good -> Feel Better About Self -> Confident Energy -> Attractive to Women

This is how pickup helps guys: Knowledge and Experience -> Feel Better About Self -> Confident Energy -> Attractive to Women

That good looking dude at the wedding would not have been noticed if he weren't smiling, leaning back, and sending off a bunch of these attractive cues. I bet he was loud, too. If your friend (the one who wanted the girl's attention) appeared more confident than that other guy, he would have held that chick's attention.

I work at a grocery store and while not all the time, on some instances a HB10 or HB9 or 8 will be with a very, very bad looking guy. It doesn't happen often, but it DOES happen. You could be one of the guys I see that has a girl thats better looking than yourself, but thats up to you, and no one else.


IT DOES HAPPEN