Lately i've been bouncing between when meeting eyes with a woman for the first time whether to look her in her right eye (NLP) until she looks away or to look away myself and then pop a grin I haven't decided which one is better yet. I was wondering if you're entering a venue and you look at a woman, and she gives you a IOD like looking to the left or right, i've noticed that I have less success with approaching those women with the three second rule than if I had looked away with a grin then gone indirect. Does looking them in the eyes until they look away show too much interest to the point where it ruins your indirect game (lots of times it helps though because you can get AIs but i'm talking in the case of where they give you IODs), or is it more just alpha and its all in my head that getting the IOD gives me less confidence? I know its an anal question but I want my game to be on point