So here is the dilemma:

I have a relatively small population that I am interested in gaming, I already know many of these girls (not closely, more like social acquaintances) and they know each other (by no more than 2 degrees of separation). I haven't seen much info on gaming girls who you already know, but haven't made any effort with.

I do a lot of PR stuff at my school and cannot afford the reputation of "that guy"; also, there is one girl who I'm moderately involved with (we are not exclusive, its more of a "I just don't want to know" situation) and I don't really want for her to hear any gossip of my gaming. <There is a more detailed explanation of my situation below.>

Any suggestions?



Details:
A:
I go to school in Philadelphia (not what I would call laden with classy girls) with roughly 12,000 undergrads. I know it sounds like, "WTF is he talking about a small population"?! I'm referring to the VERY few girls who live anywhere near campus, are at least a sober HB6.5 and don't make me go limp based upon shear "dumb-bitch"ness. Its so bad that we actually have a bell-curve system for rating girls at our school.

B:
Between doing PR stuff, being involved with multiple campus organizations, and having been throwing the parties at my fraternity fr the past nine months, I know a huge percent of the sociable people on campus and am known of by even more. Unfortunately, due to my prior AFC mentality, I really didn't have my game together until recently. So I haven't hooked up nearly as much as I should have.

C:
Living in a fraternity house means lots of guys, which begets many female guests. I prefer to go to a girl's place for many reasons, but mainly to avoid having the wrong girls (who will gossip) see, not having to worry about being interrupted by any shenanigans at the house and in general, I don't like having girls in my room unless I really want them there . Also, there are sorority houses on both sides of mine and I am friends with the greater half of both (plus that girl will be living in one of them).

Game the hottest chick (preferably two), make sure your relationship with your existing chick gets a bit of exposure (i.e. get seen out with her) and the rest will take care of itself. The idea is that while you're seeing your existing, your ability to get with the hottest chicks around will inevitably spread around and thus you'll be seen as both desirable and unobtainable. meaning the smaller fry will both be willing to have you and keep quiet about you. It's basically cat-string theory.