Hey guys, I got a LJBF (Let's just be friends) text from a girl that I really like. Now, is there any way around this in the lifestyle of a PUA, or are my chances well and truly over?

You can read the details here: http://www.seduction-game.com/2007/02/2 ... a-work-do/

I appreciate any advice you guys can give on how I might respond to her text. I also haven't seen much in the way of overcoming a LJBF scenario in these forums, or the MM forum - can it be done?

- Angelus

Nah your game over. Let her see you with other girls, and ignore her alot! try that. But lets just be friends lol.. ouch!
who cares anyway! alot of hotties out there! stop dwelling on this one.

- Impact

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

The only way you even have the slightest chance (which is really small) is that like Impact said, ignore her and go on to other girls. In some cases the LJBF girl will become jealous if she sees you with other women and sees your lack of interest. But, its a small chance because you a) have to get her to see you with other girls and b) be mesmerizing enough to attract her back once she has set up the friends barrier. So move on.

just like meth and impact said, you gotta cut your losses and ignore the hell out her, it's your only chance

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It's not that I am conceded, I am merely convinced.

agreed...can't add much more to it

Damn, thanks guys.

I'll take all that on board. Funny, I remember Mystery saying something like, "don't bother trying to repair a relationship, it's easier to start a new one".

Cool. I have another project I'm working on anyway. My goal is to keep at least two concurrent projects going

Cheers.

- Angelus

AngelusX after reading your problem i began to test if i could do this to a girl that LJBF'd me awhile ago. And I started just randomly talking to her again and she was like wow hi and all that crap. But i really just started to game her. I ended up making out with her the next night, and what really sealed the deal to her was that i said her nose wiggles when she laughs. She thought it showed that i paid attention to the other things the other guys didn't....so it can be done. this girl isn't anything special i would say a solid 7 but a nice girl you did that to me. So it can be done