So I am gonna do my best to explain this situation for you guys, i need advice. This girl i work with has been sending me strange signals. She is 22 and im 19, we work in a restaurant together. She is in college and very beautiful, totally in a different league from me. Im not ugly or anything, it's just she is just on another social level of life from me; i just graduated from highschool, she is a junior in college.

She has been sending me alot of IOI's. she always gets really excited when we work together. (she checks the schedule to see if im working), and when i arrive to work will say things like "heres my favorite person in the world}! and ill be like "hey jess whats up" she also will say things like "that color looks great on you" or "your so cute" and once asked me what plans i had for later that night. she also will say " i was so excited when i saw you were working today"

just tonight she was out at the bar (at the restaurant we work in) and we made a long eye contact.

through out all of this i have been treating the situation like she is just of one of those super nice friendly types but i keep thinking she's into me

the situation at work is weird. all the guys gawk overher and she is definately the hottest girl at work but more like a hb 8 or 9.

it would be a bad idea to approach her in a very upfront way or infront of our coworkers

i have not shown an interest (consciously) thus far, im worried that i am wrong about all this though, but i dont want to pass up a good opportunity

help? please?

anyone? advice?

If you try to be direct and it fucks up, it will be awkward.

It's work after all...

Keep gaming her, be more flirtly. You'll know if it's on.

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The only advice I can give you is to make sure that she's not a total slut. It's a common situation for an attractive woman to be a bit flirty with a lot of guys, without any of these guys noticing that they are not the sole receiver of her attention. Pay more attention to how she treats other guys, you may not be as special as you think, no offense intended.

If however, you are certain that she is interested in a relationship with you, there is no need for you to use the game, really.

My advice would be proceed as you would with any relationship.

sounds like you may be in the friend zone, girls are pretty much like that to guys they are friendly with, but even so many just neg her be cocky and funny around her im sure you can do a few routines quickly at work do the esp one w/e then when you wana be direct is when she/ you are finishing just be like hey how awesome is coffee?... she says yeah blah blah then be like great! we're gonna get some tommorow (ive noticed salesman tricks can work with women well, dont ask does she want to, say we are going too.)... if she says its not good, say im going to prove you wrong tommorow should be easy to continue or be funny with what ever she says if youve maintained confidence/cocky/funny attitude and negged her... the your offfff offff offff and away