| The last 2 weeks, I've been going out alone to bars and other environments in order to get used to not having friends with me for crutches. Not opening sets, just relaxing, starting random conversations, and avoiding alcohol. This in preparation of tonight (Friday night), when I plan on actually going to a club by myself, staying sober, and opening sets.
The reason this is a bit of a big deal for me, is because my old game consisted of the following: Enter the club with friends (the most peacocked, of course), stay attached to them, drink till I'm red in the face, and let nature take over. The success was, well, minimal (a few number closes, occasional hook-up, some flakes, etc). But no more. This time, I'm doing things the right way (and from now on, I might add). So given the dynamics...I'm nervous, but still looking forward to it.
Does anyone have some advice for this scenario?
My general game plan, is to go in looking nice (a flashy item of course. probably my trademark black fedora. lol), keep my body language as relaxed and alpha as possible (which I've made good progress with), and try not to let the fact of being alone get to me. I plan on sarging my ass off and having a lot of fun in the process. No pressure, just fun.
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