When I was at the club last week some girls approached me at the bar. I was standing at the bar and I think she left her drink there before hand. So she came up and grabbed her beer...
[hb]You didn't put any drugs in my drink did you?
[me]Oh man, i put everything in there. I wouldn't be surprised if you passed out.
[hb]*she laughs and says something, but i couldn't hear her and i didn't want to lean in.*
Her hot friend came up and said something too, but couldn't hear her also, so I just said "Ya". Then they walked away. What would you guys have done? Also, if a girl opens you first, where do you go from there? Do you qualify or tell a DHV story and neg?

RSD's advice for girls who open you is to claw immediately. The claw is basically just putting your arm around her.

Stack forward into a routine or just continue talking. Don't worry about the attraction phase so much, and yes, qualify. Do not neg.

This is the line I use when I dont hear what a girl is saying:

Red: "Listen honey If you wanna hit on me you better start talking louder cause you are losing me here"

If the girl aproaches you...she'll laugh at whaterver you say, so i've always get good responses from that one

When you're being approached lean back, open posture, don't have a drink or anything in hand. and set up your own frame. If you were at the bar your back could have been leaning on the bar with the girls one on each side or in front of you. Make them enter your world by starting the qualifying from their threads then go into one of your own. Something preferably where you can multi-thread and build gradual kino. Hot girls 8-10's needs negs pretty soon in a conversation (Do so with grin, a neg is no big deal to you, just fun). One of the girls in the two set (your target), should be given lesson attention. That way she will work harder for it.

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Maybe you are missing the point with the whole "girls aproaching you" thing. Girls aproach me regularly, an I've notice a couple things:

1) There's no need to DHV
2) There's no need to use any routine
3) You have to establish her intentions

I think you can easly understand why 1 and 2 are there: because you dont have to attract her, she is already into you. With "no routines" I mean that you dont have to use the kind of routines that seek fun and entretainment openly. Let me explain why:

I usually start talking about social dynamics, a routine I've created, If you ever heard Mystery talk about "we used to live in 50 people communities" you probably know what I'm talking about. (If not...maybe I'll post it later)

When a girl aproaches a guy she is taking a risk (just like AFCs), so she's got the balls and maybe even the experience to detect certain behaviors. So her subtext detectors are all focused on you. If she aproaches me because she saw me as an individual of value. And If I try to increase my value further she will see right trough it: I'm not "that" guy. I had no confidence in myself so I had to Impress her, but there was no need because she was already impressed.

Its not like a rule, but be aware of the sub-text you are sending to her. I used to blew it cause I conveyed way too much interest on girls apraching me, so I learned to deal with them like "it happens all the time".

Thats why you need to establish her intentions, or better, not to establish her intentions. You need to sub-communicate that you already know that she is into you, but you need to make her feel like you just said:

"Yawn...It happens all the time... ok girl what do you want?"

You dont have to say that (she'll get offended) but you need to put the ball on her feet (I love soccer) so she can start qualifying.