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There's nothing wrong with having girls as friends. In-fact this seems like the perfect opportunity to increase your social status by showing this girl a good time and by practicising your conversational and social skills. Be effortless with this girl, relaxed confidence. Instead of focusing on gaming her, just allow yourself to have fun - Don't be scared to be goofy if you want to! Hell...just treat her like one of the guys! By doing this it's likely she will introduce you to her friends not only upping your social value but allowing for new opportunities with her hot friends. Networking can be a powerful tool my friend.
-Eros
Ok, but how do I show her a good time, like I'm not a great conversationalist I'm not going to lie.
Do what YOU enjoy doing.
The best way to build rapport is to be a good listener.
When she says something of interest to you thats where you can offer some input into the conversation.
Ask her leading, probing, deeper questions.
The keys here are that she is of to be value to you for you to reward her with attention. You aren't to be a scatter brain and try to impress her by talking a lot and saying nothing. That can be very irritating.
An alpha male isn't going to sacrifice himself (his time) to someone who bores him or he has nothing to gain from such as a worthwhile experience.
Having said this you want to do something that is interactive because there's a fine line between doing what you enjoy and staying in your comfort zone.
Here's some ideas for you;
Play ball in the park.
Go gym.
Go swimming.
Go to a shooting range.
Play ping-pong.
It could be anything as long as it involves both people. That's why i think going to a movie is a bad idea until you enter a relationship because there's little interaction there.
-Eros
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