Hi, I'm new on this forum but have been a long time reader.

I'm 5'7 and 204lbs (which is pretty overweight) and I've been working on my game, posture, eye contact and have been working out for a while (used to weight 215.6) but I sometimes feel that girls will not look at me and ignore me no matter how good my game might be because of my weight.

I've read around that looks don't really matter but I'm wondering whether it's possible for someone of my size to land a HB8, HB9 or HB10?

These are a couple of pics me from a week or so ago but unfortunatelly it's not the best one but can anybody give any opinion on what I should change (apart from the weight) acording to what you've seen in these pics?




I'm asking these questions because I'm going to Japan with some friends in 6 days and I would like to know whether I'd be able to sarge over there.

Thanks a lot!

umm i can't rly see u in the top one and in the bottom one idk which one you are, but none of those people are fat...do you come from some impovrished country (read - not America lol) where people are skinnier then that?

if your the dark bald guy with the glasses, im going to suggest contacts, because you really don't want any distractions from your eyes, but i don't think you rly have any big problems...

I'm the one with the white shirt with Japanese writing and I'm from England

Sure its possible, but you need to be good at your game, I'd recommend going with a basic indirect approach so you get the talk going and can prove that you are the man, even though you don't look like a male model.

Ofcourse its easier when you are in good shape, so you've done already a good job losing weight, so keep the good work up! I can promise you that the results of good training (and a diet) will be extremely rewarding.

Dude your not FAT... If youd like to cut down more then try some cardio and clean eating....

However , In the game , Being over weight is not a big deal no is looks...


Remember "the pick up artist " show ? That big guy Joe .... he was great at opening sets... The game is based on hitting specific attraction switches and having great conversational skillz... YOu need not to be brad pitt nor Arnold shwarzennager.Just a great conversational skilz