So get this I meet this HB 8 at a party, well I end up throwing a bit a game at her before she asks me to dance. So I end up going dancing with her for a while then the rest of the night she starts to show IOI(hugging, hand holding) so by this time I figured it’s a “Done Deal” right? But at the end of the night right after I got her number I go for a K-close (too soon right?) so she ends up giving me this whole deal on how she’s not that kind of and what not, so I say “that’s cool” and end the night.

Well I decide to text 2 days later than I try to set up a date in which she gives me B.S. excuses that she’s busy (asked her twice she said she was doing stuff already).After a while she then tells me that she doesn’t want to “ lead me on”. So I tell that I just wanted to hang out with her nothing more nothing less, she then says that “I’ll call you next sat. To see if I’m free that day”

So my question is did I screw up enough that I should just cut her or should I keep trying?

Ok i'm a newb myself but maybe we can help each other out here.

What did you do before the k-close attempt?
Did you do it at the right moment? for all we know you mite have done it in a random moment when there wasn't any tension building.

The mistake you did about txting her was that you tried to set up a date straight away.
I found out that's really shit. Women won't do it unless its fools gold.

This girl came to my party(saturday) n we discuss her n friends coming to watch me play n she said maybe.
i ring back on a thursday to remind her its on saturday i play.
she goes "nah i cant, going away this weekend"
i was like aight cool. coz it didnt matter if she was going away or not, she wasn't comfortable 2g2 bball newayz.


then i msg'd her something random 2weeks later "hey call me on (gay helpline number) i gotta tell you something."
she replies and we start chatting n she found it funny.
then i got her opinion on some shit and ya so on so on. now we're cool, she probably feels more comfortable now and is thinking why didn't he ask me out on a date again!!
but ya she said she'll msg me sometime. im gonna wait another week before trying to get her going again n see if i can finally get a date. this time that she won't flake.


so just tell them something random that happened to you in the last few days or ask them something that will get them thinking as an opinion giver n shit before trying to set up a date.

I'm not sure if you can recover from this one. tho.

not everything and every girl works out you know...I would be freinds at this point. Lol ljbf (with tension) zone is like a little storage box for girls who aren't in to you but may be later.

Yeah kind of figured it now, thanks for your guy's help. I guess I'll just hang out with her as a "friend" and just game on her friends..
What do you guys think?