Hey all, long time reader, first time poster here.

Ok well I have a dilemma of sorts. About 1 ½ months ago, I had started to make some progress with this HB8.5, but it got cut off when I left on a short deployment. I did get her email though before leaving and sent her some emails. She responded only twice though, the last one being about a month or so ago. And even though I did respond to that email, several times actually (yeah, AFCish I know, but I wasn’t all that aware of the rules at that time) she never emailed back a response. Now its been like 3 weeks or so since I last emailed her, and I get home next week. Should I try and email her again, or show up at her work and play it off like I just happen to be there, with a sort of freeze out (she works at a casino, so I could just show up, be seen, but not sit at her table, kind of like blow her off almost), or maybe even just cut her off as a loss and concentrate more on other girls?

Thanks for the advice in advance!

I ain't an expert, but I wouldn't email her another time man, that is really AFCish and come across as a DLV/needy, and that's not what you want!

I like your idea of going to the casino (with your mates ofcourse, she'll never believe you came to the casino by yourself without the intention to see her ) and just see what happens. Don't completely ignore her, but let her know she's not the center of your attention (which she is but she doesn't know it) If she starts emailing you or comes talking to you that night you know you did a good job.
And if she still shows disinterest just pull up your shoulders and look for another.
That's my advice, I'm curious what'll happen in the future, let me know if you want

Sounds like good advice, and I think that's gonna be my game plan for this one. Kind of figured emailing back at this point would be really AFCish, just nice to have the idea reinforced. Appreciate the feedback, thanks Feist!